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<blockquote data-quote="HaoZi" data-source="post: 460268"><p>Judging from your signature, there is no viable reason for difficult child to not be able to take care of himself. Ergo, difficult child's problems are, well, difficult child's problems. They're not your problem any longer unless you choose to make them your problem, and I have a sneaking suspicion that what your critics are terming "help" would more likely fall in the definition of "enabling." It is one thing if they have specific ideas on ways he can truly be helped that require your assistance, it is quite another for them to make noises that you can't have a life until he's fully functioning when he is beyond an age that you could actually do much to force him to get help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HaoZi, post: 460268"] Judging from your signature, there is no viable reason for difficult child to not be able to take care of himself. Ergo, difficult child's problems are, well, difficult child's problems. They're not your problem any longer unless you choose to make them your problem, and I have a sneaking suspicion that what your critics are terming "help" would more likely fall in the definition of "enabling." It is one thing if they have specific ideas on ways he can truly be helped that require your assistance, it is quite another for them to make noises that you can't have a life until he's fully functioning when he is beyond an age that you could actually do much to force him to get help. [/QUOTE]
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