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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 460272"><p>Oh that part about you not having a life until he is fully funcitioning... that smells very strongly of enabling and is a good way to have a miserable life. One thing I have realized recently is that my difficult children problems may go on for a long long time and if put my life on hold until they are better, then I will also have a lousy life!!! And showing him that I will also have a lousy life does him absolutely no good at all!!! Best thing you can do is show him you love him, will support him in getting help for himself and also showing him that YOU are going to continue having a good life yourself.!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 460272"] Oh that part about you not having a life until he is fully funcitioning... that smells very strongly of enabling and is a good way to have a miserable life. One thing I have realized recently is that my difficult children problems may go on for a long long time and if put my life on hold until they are better, then I will also have a lousy life!!! And showing him that I will also have a lousy life does him absolutely no good at all!!! Best thing you can do is show him you love him, will support him in getting help for himself and also showing him that YOU are going to continue having a good life yourself.!! [/QUOTE]
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