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<blockquote data-quote="neednewtechnique" data-source="post: 25380" data-attributes="member: 3527"><p>That's EXACTLY what I think is happening in our case. She hears anything will do something, and she runs with it. However, it is very difficult for me to be sure. As I have mentioned, she has only been living with us since January. We have been pretty involved with her for much longer than that, but before CPS placed her in our home, she was only spending weekends with us, and at that point, this was kind of a "getaway" place for her, away from the normal life stresses, so we were at that point not seeing any of these behaviors. It seems that we went from being her break time out from chaos, to being the CAUSE of the chaos....or at least that is how she makes us feel, and she will tell us that it is our fault that she has to act that way because we try to make her do things she doesn't want to do. And also, has anyone ever noticed that their outbursts are SO UNPREDICTABLE?!?! If something huge has to be dealt with and you expect they will lash out at you the very second you bring it up, they end up handling it WONDERFULLY. But then it is the littlest things that cause them to go off???? Just an observation I have picked up on with our difficult child, and wondering if this is the case with anyone else....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neednewtechnique, post: 25380, member: 3527"] That's EXACTLY what I think is happening in our case. She hears anything will do something, and she runs with it. However, it is very difficult for me to be sure. As I have mentioned, she has only been living with us since January. We have been pretty involved with her for much longer than that, but before CPS placed her in our home, she was only spending weekends with us, and at that point, this was kind of a "getaway" place for her, away from the normal life stresses, so we were at that point not seeing any of these behaviors. It seems that we went from being her break time out from chaos, to being the CAUSE of the chaos....or at least that is how she makes us feel, and she will tell us that it is our fault that she has to act that way because we try to make her do things she doesn't want to do. And also, has anyone ever noticed that their outbursts are SO UNPREDICTABLE?!?! If something huge has to be dealt with and you expect they will lash out at you the very second you bring it up, they end up handling it WONDERFULLY. But then it is the littlest things that cause them to go off???? Just an observation I have picked up on with our difficult child, and wondering if this is the case with anyone else.... [/QUOTE]
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