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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 31404" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>thanks and no donna I do not mind the bluntness. I totally appreciate seeing all sides of an issue and ultimately decide after weighing things out. I have thought those very thoughts. </p><p></p><p>as for ant...he is fine. he found a gal who has a three brdm house and two lil boys. she needs a renter. no lease. he called rather calm and is coming to pick up his bed today. I am not going back to him living here no matter what. he has not missed work and she may ride him for some extra money. whatever...he has to work it out. I gave him a 6 months start. I will not house an alcoholic. too hard to watch.</p><p></p><p>as for boyfriend...he did come over and we walked in a lot of silence. we then took a picnic to the lake and sat while the sun set. I told him all the stuff I didnt like about "us" and thanked him for all the good things he has done. he truly seems depressed and distraught. I know he has never gotten over the wife and he should seek help. I told him he can get antidepressants and talk to his doctor. </p><p></p><p>I do not feel all bubbly about him and certainly not in the mood to treat him like a King. he would have to earn that. </p><p></p><p>we are going to the play tomorrow night with a group of friends. I am doing some serious praying to God to help me have discretion and insight into whether I want to spend more time with him after that. I am getting much better at being on my own since this week without him.</p><p></p><p>geez I always feel like "perils of penelope" and want a normal world. whatever that is. I cannot fix or help anyone nor do I want to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 31404, member: 97"] thanks and no donna I do not mind the bluntness. I totally appreciate seeing all sides of an issue and ultimately decide after weighing things out. I have thought those very thoughts. as for ant...he is fine. he found a gal who has a three brdm house and two lil boys. she needs a renter. no lease. he called rather calm and is coming to pick up his bed today. I am not going back to him living here no matter what. he has not missed work and she may ride him for some extra money. whatever...he has to work it out. I gave him a 6 months start. I will not house an alcoholic. too hard to watch. as for boyfriend...he did come over and we walked in a lot of silence. we then took a picnic to the lake and sat while the sun set. I told him all the stuff I didnt like about "us" and thanked him for all the good things he has done. he truly seems depressed and distraught. I know he has never gotten over the wife and he should seek help. I told him he can get antidepressants and talk to his doctor. I do not feel all bubbly about him and certainly not in the mood to treat him like a King. he would have to earn that. we are going to the play tomorrow night with a group of friends. I am doing some serious praying to God to help me have discretion and insight into whether I want to spend more time with him after that. I am getting much better at being on my own since this week without him. geez I always feel like "perils of penelope" and want a normal world. whatever that is. I cannot fix or help anyone nor do I want to. [/QUOTE]
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