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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 34429" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>thanks for all the support and wonderful words to think about and digest.</p><p></p><p>ant has not called me but once to see about kaleb's sitting issues. he never called for Easter. I am removing myself from his world. what do I expect? I guess his drinking will take him to the jail again. without me this time. God be with him.</p><p></p><p>boyfriend gave me the most romantic loving card for Easter. He and I had Easter dinner at his mom and dad's/ I love them.</p><p>they hug me and love me back. when doing dishes she and I got to talk. she said boyfriend cannot see what he has. she seems disgusted with him still mourning about the ex wife. she said the ex is happy and is not ever coming back. she told me I cannot allow boyfriend to pop in and out of my life when he is lonely. she agreed that is not good for me and is not right. She hugged me when I left and told me I have to do what is best for ME.</p><p></p><p>when we got back to his house, I asked boyfriend if he still feels he needs time apart from me. He said he wants to see me and date me now and then, not every day like we had in the past. he said he still has issues over his marriage ending. I told boyfriend that I have enough other turmoil in my life worrying over my grandson, taking care of my sister, and working and taking care of my home on my own. I told him I need a stable for-sure relationship. I have dated him over 3 yrs. if he cannot move ahead, I am leaving him behind. I do not want to sit on a shelf while he decides this day or that if he wants me in his world. He had tears in his eyes. I told him I took a lot from him I shouldnt have with his disloyalty at times in the past. I am not taking wondering if today we have a relationship/tomorrow we don't. I will be 55 this year. I want someone to grow old with. someone to love me and treat me as well as I do them.</p><p></p><p>I left it with him that if he does not come to my house when I get off work tonight, then tomorrow I start praying that God send the right person in my life so that I can get on with it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 34429, member: 97"] thanks for all the support and wonderful words to think about and digest. ant has not called me but once to see about kaleb's sitting issues. he never called for Easter. I am removing myself from his world. what do I expect? I guess his drinking will take him to the jail again. without me this time. God be with him. boyfriend gave me the most romantic loving card for Easter. He and I had Easter dinner at his mom and dad's/ I love them. they hug me and love me back. when doing dishes she and I got to talk. she said boyfriend cannot see what he has. she seems disgusted with him still mourning about the ex wife. she said the ex is happy and is not ever coming back. she told me I cannot allow boyfriend to pop in and out of my life when he is lonely. she agreed that is not good for me and is not right. She hugged me when I left and told me I have to do what is best for ME. when we got back to his house, I asked boyfriend if he still feels he needs time apart from me. He said he wants to see me and date me now and then, not every day like we had in the past. he said he still has issues over his marriage ending. I told boyfriend that I have enough other turmoil in my life worrying over my grandson, taking care of my sister, and working and taking care of my home on my own. I told him I need a stable for-sure relationship. I have dated him over 3 yrs. if he cannot move ahead, I am leaving him behind. I do not want to sit on a shelf while he decides this day or that if he wants me in his world. He had tears in his eyes. I told him I took a lot from him I shouldnt have with his disloyalty at times in the past. I am not taking wondering if today we have a relationship/tomorrow we don't. I will be 55 this year. I want someone to grow old with. someone to love me and treat me as well as I do them. I left it with him that if he does not come to my house when I get off work tonight, then tomorrow I start praying that God send the right person in my life so that I can get on with it. [/QUOTE]
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