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Is there always a reason?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 524452" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>There is always a reason but that doesn't mean we can always figure it out. Lots of times it can look like bad parenting and have tests show nothing but the problems still are caused by a health or mental illness issue. that goes for physical as well as behavioral/emotional disorders. </p><p></p><p>or it can look like there is no reason but if you sleuth and search and listen to the instincts of the parent you eventually find a reason.</p><p></p><p>sometimes a child just seems evil, does things that are so awful, so hurtful to others that you wonder what is wrongbut the docs 'can't find' anything wrong. sadly, those are oftn the cases where the child was badly abused.</p><p></p><p>Even harder than the above is knowing that no matter how great, nice sweet, effective and loving you are, there are kids who won't respond and turn their lives around for a very long time or ever. For some hurt/abused/sick children, there is no happy future, they simply cannot accept love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 524452, member: 1233"] There is always a reason but that doesn't mean we can always figure it out. Lots of times it can look like bad parenting and have tests show nothing but the problems still are caused by a health or mental illness issue. that goes for physical as well as behavioral/emotional disorders. or it can look like there is no reason but if you sleuth and search and listen to the instincts of the parent you eventually find a reason. sometimes a child just seems evil, does things that are so awful, so hurtful to others that you wonder what is wrongbut the docs 'can't find' anything wrong. sadly, those are oftn the cases where the child was badly abused. Even harder than the above is knowing that no matter how great, nice sweet, effective and loving you are, there are kids who won't respond and turn their lives around for a very long time or ever. For some hurt/abused/sick children, there is no happy future, they simply cannot accept love. [/QUOTE]
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