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<blockquote data-quote="Coookie" data-source="post: 116412" data-attributes="member: 1587"><p>Kathy,</p><p></p><p>I have found that usually our warning bells are accurate. :frown:</p><p></p><p>Having said that... I would talk to difficult child, tell her your concerns and let her make her choices. Hopefully they will be good ones.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like your difficult child has come a long way and I am so happy. :smile: and I see her telling you that she sold her pills as an attempt to punish you and husband for not loaning her the money for her phone bill. Maybe to put you in a place of worry and perhaps the next time she needs help it will be easier to get? She may have..and she may not have.. Just a thought.</p><p></p><p>Our difficult children have us chasing so many bubbles, trying to stop things that may happen. :frown: or may not. :crazy: </p><p></p><p>You sound like you have built a trust with her and she has certainly shown she is able to make good decisions so I think, like I said, I would express my concerns and let her make the choices. </p><p></p><p>I have found over the last 9 months that difficult child was gone, making many bad choices, that in order to keep my sanity... those choices were his.. as were the consequences and I just couldn't keep chasing those bubbles anymore. :slap:</p><p></p><p>Sending many hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coookie, post: 116412, member: 1587"] Kathy, I have found that usually our warning bells are accurate. [img]:frown:[/img] Having said that... I would talk to difficult child, tell her your concerns and let her make her choices. Hopefully they will be good ones. It sounds like your difficult child has come a long way and I am so happy. [img]:smile:[/img] and I see her telling you that she sold her pills as an attempt to punish you and husband for not loaning her the money for her phone bill. Maybe to put you in a place of worry and perhaps the next time she needs help it will be easier to get? She may have..and she may not have.. Just a thought. Our difficult children have us chasing so many bubbles, trying to stop things that may happen. [img]:frown:[/img] or may not. [img]:crazy:[/img] You sound like you have built a trust with her and she has certainly shown she is able to make good decisions so I think, like I said, I would express my concerns and let her make the choices. I have found over the last 9 months that difficult child was gone, making many bad choices, that in order to keep my sanity... those choices were his.. as were the consequences and I just couldn't keep chasing those bubbles anymore. [img]:slap:[/img] Sending many hugs [/QUOTE]
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