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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 683238" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>That alone is reason enough to say no. You get to choose how you spend your money.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>You have the right to boundaries. You don't have to put yourself in the situation where you know the chances are higher of him upsetting you.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>His life isn't your life, and your life isn't his life. You need to be at liberty to do the things that are YOUR life.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Sounds like an honest assessment to me.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Red flag. BIG red flag.</p><p>Why would HE need to be staying there with YOU? He isn't a little kid. He has a place to stay. If you were to stay in a hotel at all, it would be for YOUR comfort. NOT so he can "do more stuff"... a.k.a. drink or do drugs.</p><p> </p><p>Just my opinion, but I think your gut feel is right. Don't say overnight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 683238, member: 11791"] That alone is reason enough to say no. You get to choose how you spend your money. You have the right to boundaries. You don't have to put yourself in the situation where you know the chances are higher of him upsetting you. His life isn't your life, and your life isn't his life. You need to be at liberty to do the things that are YOUR life. Sounds like an honest assessment to me. Red flag. BIG red flag. Why would HE need to be staying there with YOU? He isn't a little kid. He has a place to stay. If you were to stay in a hotel at all, it would be for YOUR comfort. NOT so he can "do more stuff"... a.k.a. drink or do drugs. Just my opinion, but I think your gut feel is right. Don't say overnight. [/QUOTE]
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