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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 683315" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>I almost think a visit end of April is too soon. Not a great idea. He will be less than 2 mos. in sober house. I'd be concerned that a visit with you 2 could somehow not turn out great...upset him, or somehow upset the apple cart (-->him being sober, moving forward)? Where he might want to self-medicate? </p><p></p><p>I don't know, maybe I'm projecting as this is something I could see my own son doing, (I seem to always upset him[emoji30], somehow, no matter HOW hard I try!) and maybe it's totally not something your son would do. In that case, ignore this<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />. </p><p></p><p>Long story short? Being that he hasn't been sober long, I would worry that somehow the visit would upset him and then he would think about using again and I would not want to in any way contribute to that. But again my son is VERY reactive to me, maybe yours is not. Thus no worries for you<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />.</p><p></p><p>And I agree with the others- having him sleep over in hotel is a bad idea. A decent hotel in Boynton or Delray will cost you, at minimum, 125/night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 683315, member: 19966"] I almost think a visit end of April is too soon. Not a great idea. He will be less than 2 mos. in sober house. I'd be concerned that a visit with you 2 could somehow not turn out great...upset him, or somehow upset the apple cart (-->him being sober, moving forward)? Where he might want to self-medicate? I don't know, maybe I'm projecting as this is something I could see my own son doing, (I seem to always upset him[emoji30], somehow, no matter HOW hard I try!) and maybe it's totally not something your son would do. In that case, ignore this:). Long story short? Being that he hasn't been sober long, I would worry that somehow the visit would upset him and then he would think about using again and I would not want to in any way contribute to that. But again my son is VERY reactive to me, maybe yours is not. Thus no worries for you:). And I agree with the others- having him sleep over in hotel is a bad idea. A decent hotel in Boynton or Delray will cost you, at minimum, 125/night. [/QUOTE]
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