Thank you Lil. I believe that as well.
Checking online, Tornado did not show for court. Go figure. Sigh. I suppose she will blame me because I would not allow her home.
I’m not falling for it. Her choice is to skirt the law.
She has a bench warrant, which will only make a difference if she gets herself in trouble again. They won’t go looking for her.
I spoke with her cousin the other day. He said he saw her, gave her some money and later found out she took his bike. Nice. I told him that was wrong, he said he guessed she needed it. He wasn’t angry.
What a code.
There you have it.
So, on to square one again, pushing all of this to the back of my mind and forging on.
I will keep her in my daily prayers and hope that she will wake up.
There is nothing I can do to control or change her choices.
She is thirty. Her three kids are raised by their grandparents. She will do what she wants, until she is tired of it.
Only time will tell.
I will do my best to rebuild myself, keep striving to live the best rest of my life. That cannot be dependent on what my adult children decide to do with their lives.
Thank you all for your kindness and wisdom helping me through this.
(((Hugs)))
Leafy
