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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 572945" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I agree with Recoveringenabler, Throwing them out is<em><strong><u> not </u></strong></em>an easy way out. The worry does not stop when they leave. Putting them out on their own it is often the only way an addict will want to change and often the only way the family can be safe from the abuse the addict takes out on them. Stealing is abuse, verbal ranting is abuse, destruction of property is abuse, bringing drugs into your and your parents home is abuse. If he were not family would you allow this???? I doubt it. Running around trying to shore up every part of his life so he can't use or get into trouble is futile and enabling. Not to mention stressful. I agree that CODA, NarcAnon, Nami or Alanon would be a good thing for both you and your parents. In the mean time put your money in the bank and keep your bank info well hidden. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 572945, member: 2315"] I agree with Recoveringenabler, Throwing them out is[I][B][U] not [/U][/B][/I]an easy way out. The worry does not stop when they leave. Putting them out on their own it is often the only way an addict will want to change and often the only way the family can be safe from the abuse the addict takes out on them. Stealing is abuse, verbal ranting is abuse, destruction of property is abuse, bringing drugs into your and your parents home is abuse. If he were not family would you allow this???? I doubt it. Running around trying to shore up every part of his life so he can't use or get into trouble is futile and enabling. Not to mention stressful. I agree that CODA, NarcAnon, Nami or Alanon would be a good thing for both you and your parents. In the mean time put your money in the bank and keep your bank info well hidden. -RM [/QUOTE]
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