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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 573101" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>The hardest thing I ever did was detach from my daughter and refuse to allow her to live with us. I needed a lot of help to do it, it's a tough road. I would suggest you get a trained professional, or a support group or something to help your parents especially, but of course you too. Someone needs to help you guys navigate through this, provide support, options, advice, comfort, listening skill, all of it. You all deserve that. Here in CA. there are programs through Kaiser Permanente for Chemical Dependency and Codependency, the programs are stellar. I don't know where you live but you can call your local HMO or medical facility and start asking around. Go to Coda groups, alanon, any group where you can talk to others who've been where you find yourself. They will have some other options for where you live. But you have to start somewhere, you will need support. In different states, sometimes you have to legally evict someone, you have to go to court to file papers and it can take a few weeks. You need to look into all of it. Your parents need to take on some of this responsibility as well, the three of you have lots of options, you just have to research them. Keep posting, others will support you as you go through this, there are many of us here who've traveled on the road you're on, you're not alone. HUGS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 573101, member: 13542"] The hardest thing I ever did was detach from my daughter and refuse to allow her to live with us. I needed a lot of help to do it, it's a tough road. I would suggest you get a trained professional, or a support group or something to help your parents especially, but of course you too. Someone needs to help you guys navigate through this, provide support, options, advice, comfort, listening skill, all of it. You all deserve that. Here in CA. there are programs through Kaiser Permanente for Chemical Dependency and Codependency, the programs are stellar. I don't know where you live but you can call your local HMO or medical facility and start asking around. Go to Coda groups, alanon, any group where you can talk to others who've been where you find yourself. They will have some other options for where you live. But you have to start somewhere, you will need support. In different states, sometimes you have to legally evict someone, you have to go to court to file papers and it can take a few weeks. You need to look into all of it. Your parents need to take on some of this responsibility as well, the three of you have lots of options, you just have to research them. Keep posting, others will support you as you go through this, there are many of us here who've traveled on the road you're on, you're not alone. HUGS. [/QUOTE]
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