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It should have been my 17th Anniversary today...
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 379767" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>ok maybe this tale will help..... when i divorced my pyscho ex i was mixed up, i was so sad about the seperation because it was the end of a dream i had in my head of the life we had the life i thought we would keep having, etc. difficult child was just a baby, i had no job, yet i opened the door and out he went. we tried counseling, etc. nothing worked. he was just nuts by the way <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> not me!!</p><p> </p><p>anyhow, i had difficult child who back than was as much a handful as she is now, climbing out of crib broke her arm a mos. into my seperation 4 hr surgery to repair her, easy child was acting out like you wouldnt' believe, i had a lump in my breast at the time that i had an appointment for, had made it prior to seperation. granted you have alot more kids than i did!! lol.</p><p> </p><p>long story short was worst time of my life, no job, no money, ex h took our truck becasue he was being a *****, i find out i need breast surger a partial masectomy, difficult child is in hospital getting surgery, easy child is melting down and hitting kids in school, my mom was busy telling me how to do things and when to do them and boom my landlord rasied my rent by 500 in private house we rented to try to get me out!!!</p><p> </p><p>i took myself down to beach one day, stood there screamed yelled cried threw sand, god only knows what ppl watching must of thought <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> and it was raining out also. i was soaking wet basically freaking out. than suddenly the sun came out, made no sense and to be honest i'm not a religious person at all, more spiritual. well i stood there warm sun on me, i was covered in boogers (for lack of better words lol ), sand, tears, rain a total mess. yet at that moment i knew i was giong to be ok one way or another.</p><p> </p><p>i than; planted my family, got my breast removed or most of it, fixed difficult child's arm, got easy child to stop beating kids in school, found two jobs after i recovered from surgery, moved to smaller apartment. it suxed bigtime!</p><p> </p><p>yet mos. after the turmoil i sat one night alone in my living room, kids in their room with a cup of tea. no drama, no bs, just me. it was beautiful and although girlfriend'gs always well been difficult child i became a new me. it was like my old skin fell away and the new skin grew. i felt better than i'd ever felt before, i felt powerful, the whole i am woman thing going on!!</p><p> </p><p>point of me sharing is to really show you it gets better. and especially when your at a piont where better seems literally impossible.</p><p> </p><p>((Hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 379767, member: 4514"] ok maybe this tale will help..... when i divorced my pyscho ex i was mixed up, i was so sad about the seperation because it was the end of a dream i had in my head of the life we had the life i thought we would keep having, etc. difficult child was just a baby, i had no job, yet i opened the door and out he went. we tried counseling, etc. nothing worked. he was just nuts by the way :) not me!! anyhow, i had difficult child who back than was as much a handful as she is now, climbing out of crib broke her arm a mos. into my seperation 4 hr surgery to repair her, easy child was acting out like you wouldnt' believe, i had a lump in my breast at the time that i had an appointment for, had made it prior to seperation. granted you have alot more kids than i did!! lol. long story short was worst time of my life, no job, no money, ex h took our truck becasue he was being a *****, i find out i need breast surger a partial masectomy, difficult child is in hospital getting surgery, easy child is melting down and hitting kids in school, my mom was busy telling me how to do things and when to do them and boom my landlord rasied my rent by 500 in private house we rented to try to get me out!!! i took myself down to beach one day, stood there screamed yelled cried threw sand, god only knows what ppl watching must of thought :) and it was raining out also. i was soaking wet basically freaking out. than suddenly the sun came out, made no sense and to be honest i'm not a religious person at all, more spiritual. well i stood there warm sun on me, i was covered in boogers (for lack of better words lol ), sand, tears, rain a total mess. yet at that moment i knew i was giong to be ok one way or another. i than; planted my family, got my breast removed or most of it, fixed difficult child's arm, got easy child to stop beating kids in school, found two jobs after i recovered from surgery, moved to smaller apartment. it suxed bigtime! yet mos. after the turmoil i sat one night alone in my living room, kids in their room with a cup of tea. no drama, no bs, just me. it was beautiful and although girlfriend'gs always well been difficult child i became a new me. it was like my old skin fell away and the new skin grew. i felt better than i'd ever felt before, i felt powerful, the whole i am woman thing going on!! point of me sharing is to really show you it gets better. and especially when your at a piont where better seems literally impossible. ((Hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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