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it was exactly as i suspected....
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 426847"><p>Jena, What I am thinking about is your younger difficult child... she was very upset at the outburst after lunch correct? There may be more to that than you realize. I think growing up and having the tension around difficult child issues with a young adult can be very very hard on the younger kids. I realize your easy child was a easy child until fairly recently so in that way your situation is different than mine... however I have realized that no matter what I want, no matter how I feel about it having my difficult child come back home would be detrimental for my daughter. Probably worse situation between them than yours but still...you also need to think about your younger difficult child. You have to protect her from all the drama. How is she doing with easy child out of the house? I know my daughter thrives when my son is not here and I have decided that I need to support her right now.</p><p></p><p>What Janet says is very true.... when they say you can't go home again I think this is what they mean. I think coming back home often holds kids back from growing up, and that is what all your adult but really children kids need... to grow up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 426847"] Jena, What I am thinking about is your younger difficult child... she was very upset at the outburst after lunch correct? There may be more to that than you realize. I think growing up and having the tension around difficult child issues with a young adult can be very very hard on the younger kids. I realize your easy child was a easy child until fairly recently so in that way your situation is different than mine... however I have realized that no matter what I want, no matter how I feel about it having my difficult child come back home would be detrimental for my daughter. Probably worse situation between them than yours but still...you also need to think about your younger difficult child. You have to protect her from all the drama. How is she doing with easy child out of the house? I know my daughter thrives when my son is not here and I have decided that I need to support her right now. What Janet says is very true.... when they say you can't go home again I think this is what they mean. I think coming back home often holds kids back from growing up, and that is what all your adult but really children kids need... to grow up. [/QUOTE]
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