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<blockquote data-quote="losttheplot" data-source="post: 167405"><p>Hi all......</p><p></p><p>Yes Marg i was lucky to get carers pension for difficult child after fighting and winging and complaining...we were accepted on difficult children birthday of all days due to his dangerous psychiatric problems they say.... they said no and then two days later changed their mind...go figure....</p><p></p><p>so I am studying My BASS at home and so far have had 2 distinctions on assignments so feeling pretty pleased and glad that one day i shall be helping kids like my own get the help they need... small dreams...huh..... </p><p></p><p>the ex thinks its as easy as him saying i want him and then poof he has him...though to be honest a break of a few mths (cause thats how long he would last) would be awesome..... I think the big thing in the USA is that the ex now has to pay where as with his other two kids he just handed over his rights and that was that.....I have emails from his wife though that talk of his mental state, videotaping of women without them knowing and abuse etc so I have proof he isn't allowed to see difficult child without supervision...</p><p>and if they move here like they are threatening he will never get to see him ALONE.</p><p></p><p>I called a lawyer who said theres not a chance they would take a kid who is a self harmer and violent away from what he knows cause his anxiety would go through the roof. You all know what difficult children are like when their routines get screwed up...he did try and hurt himself just after christmas again with a scarf and went for his sisters throat recently so I am not too eager to change anything ........ the lawyer did say the ex may be allowed phone calls (i have offered him them for yrs ) ... ...</p><p></p><p>on a good note we were lucky to get accepted for $5000 worth of respite this year so difficult child is gonna have some him time were he gets a break from my winging he says..... got to love his way of thinking sometimes....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="losttheplot, post: 167405"] Hi all...... Yes Marg i was lucky to get carers pension for difficult child after fighting and winging and complaining...we were accepted on difficult children birthday of all days due to his dangerous psychiatric problems they say.... they said no and then two days later changed their mind...go figure.... so I am studying My BASS at home and so far have had 2 distinctions on assignments so feeling pretty pleased and glad that one day i shall be helping kids like my own get the help they need... small dreams...huh..... the ex thinks its as easy as him saying i want him and then poof he has him...though to be honest a break of a few mths (cause thats how long he would last) would be awesome..... I think the big thing in the USA is that the ex now has to pay where as with his other two kids he just handed over his rights and that was that.....I have emails from his wife though that talk of his mental state, videotaping of women without them knowing and abuse etc so I have proof he isn't allowed to see difficult child without supervision... and if they move here like they are threatening he will never get to see him ALONE. I called a lawyer who said theres not a chance they would take a kid who is a self harmer and violent away from what he knows cause his anxiety would go through the roof. You all know what difficult children are like when their routines get screwed up...he did try and hurt himself just after christmas again with a scarf and went for his sisters throat recently so I am not too eager to change anything ........ the lawyer did say the ex may be allowed phone calls (i have offered him them for yrs ) ... ... on a good note we were lucky to get accepted for $5000 worth of respite this year so difficult child is gonna have some him time were he gets a break from my winging he says..... got to love his way of thinking sometimes.... [/QUOTE]
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