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It's been a while....I'm back living in hell!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 166476" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>There is also a book called, "New Hope for Parents" or something like that that is very good too. There is a great online support group for parents of children with Borderline (BPD), called NUTS. I think you can easily find it if you google it. My dtr was diagnosed with Borderline (BPD) traits as a teen and she was very challenging--that group helped a lot. But, I sure wish I had found this group at the same time! </p><p></p><p>My dtr was in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for 8 1/2 months and several rehabs as well. She did great in a structured, therapeutic environment but as soon as she was out she regressed. Eventually I had to kick her out--I have a younger dtr and she has been in therapy now for 3 years to deal with the fallout from living with her sister. Her sister was 18 when I kicked her out--I decided her younger sister deserved to be put first for once. I spent so many years trying to help the older one and all my attention was focused on her. I regret doing that. </p><p></p><p>I agree with the others--let her go back in the system--time to put the 7 year old first and you definitely need the break! You cannot live like you are anymore.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry about the lies about the rape. My dtr claimed to have been raped twice and I have my doubts about both occurrences. Things just didn't quite add up. She did like all the attention she received from people.</p><p></p><p>Keep coming here--it is a great place for support and courage!</p><p></p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 166476, member: 3208"] There is also a book called, "New Hope for Parents" or something like that that is very good too. There is a great online support group for parents of children with Borderline (BPD), called NUTS. I think you can easily find it if you google it. My dtr was diagnosed with Borderline (BPD) traits as a teen and she was very challenging--that group helped a lot. But, I sure wish I had found this group at the same time! My dtr was in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for 8 1/2 months and several rehabs as well. She did great in a structured, therapeutic environment but as soon as she was out she regressed. Eventually I had to kick her out--I have a younger dtr and she has been in therapy now for 3 years to deal with the fallout from living with her sister. Her sister was 18 when I kicked her out--I decided her younger sister deserved to be put first for once. I spent so many years trying to help the older one and all my attention was focused on her. I regret doing that. I agree with the others--let her go back in the system--time to put the 7 year old first and you definitely need the break! You cannot live like you are anymore. I am so sorry about the lies about the rape. My dtr claimed to have been raped twice and I have my doubts about both occurrences. Things just didn't quite add up. She did like all the attention she received from people. Keep coming here--it is a great place for support and courage! Jane [/QUOTE]
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