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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 238303" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>This is coming from a person who's parents divorced and remarried so many times that between the 2 of them....I've lost count. And I do mean it with kindness.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child needs to s uck it up already. He needs to stop worrying about a divorce that happened 13 yrs ago and get his own act together. I don't mean to sound as overly harsh as that probably did. But what I'm getting at is that difficult child is using the divorce as an excuse to continue on with the same old same old routine and not get the help he needs. He needs someone to blame because otherwise he has only himself. Know what I mean??</p><p> </p><p>Do not let it make you feel guilty. You did what you did because it was what you needed to do. It's not up to him to decide whether it was right or wrong. </p><p> </p><p>So sorry he's playing the blame game. I wonder if he's plunged into depression? Sounds like maybe. </p><p> </p><p>Sending warm ((((hugs)))) your way. Hope he snaps back to his senses (or goes for medications) soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 238303, member: 84"] This is coming from a person who's parents divorced and remarried so many times that between the 2 of them....I've lost count. And I do mean it with kindness. difficult child needs to s uck it up already. He needs to stop worrying about a divorce that happened 13 yrs ago and get his own act together. I don't mean to sound as overly harsh as that probably did. But what I'm getting at is that difficult child is using the divorce as an excuse to continue on with the same old same old routine and not get the help he needs. He needs someone to blame because otherwise he has only himself. Know what I mean?? Do not let it make you feel guilty. You did what you did because it was what you needed to do. It's not up to him to decide whether it was right or wrong. So sorry he's playing the blame game. I wonder if he's plunged into depression? Sounds like maybe. Sending warm ((((hugs)))) your way. Hope he snaps back to his senses (or goes for medications) soon. [/QUOTE]
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