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<blockquote data-quote="Mikey" data-source="post: 147937" data-attributes="member: 3579"><p>Don't think that will happen, either. Where I live, Mom gets custody almost all the time. And since I'm the one setting conditions on whether or not <strong>I</strong> will be living there, my attorney friend doesn't think I have much of a chance of taking Dancer with me.</p><p></p><p>I really, really don't want to do that. And in truth, I probably wouldn't do it even if I could. I may be angry enough to eat a beehive, but I don't want my family to disintegrate. I'm doing what I'm doing to preserve my own sanity, and also force McWeedy that much closer to "real life consequences" by refusing to support his bad decisions any more. And wife, bless her poor soul, won't be able to keep him afloat for long without me, no matter how hard she tries.. </p><p></p><p>I believe that eventually, wife will see the light, if for no other reason than McWeedy won't stop being McButthead. Now that I'm out of the picture, she can't blame me anymore. I hope and pray that when she finally gets to that point, that she sees I'm trying to do what's right, not trying to abandon her and our family. In a way, I feel it's the only chance I have to save our family.</p><p></p><p>But, if I scat and try to take Dancer with me, then that's an outright declaration of war, and there will be NO going back or salvaging our relationship. If it comes to me leaving (and I really hope it doesn't), I'll go on my own. If wife then "hits bottom" we can try to salvage our relationship. If she doesn't, then I'll be in a better position to do, well, whatever I have to for the safety of my children still left in the house.</p><p></p><p>But I hope it doesn't come to that. In fact, a friend of mine even suggested that I move into the "man cave", i.e. my basement, before anything else. If the time comes, it's something to think about....</p><p></p><p>Mikey</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mikey, post: 147937, member: 3579"] Don't think that will happen, either. Where I live, Mom gets custody almost all the time. And since I'm the one setting conditions on whether or not [B]I[/B] will be living there, my attorney friend doesn't think I have much of a chance of taking Dancer with me. I really, really don't want to do that. And in truth, I probably wouldn't do it even if I could. I may be angry enough to eat a beehive, but I don't want my family to disintegrate. I'm doing what I'm doing to preserve my own sanity, and also force McWeedy that much closer to "real life consequences" by refusing to support his bad decisions any more. And wife, bless her poor soul, won't be able to keep him afloat for long without me, no matter how hard she tries.. I believe that eventually, wife will see the light, if for no other reason than McWeedy won't stop being McButthead. Now that I'm out of the picture, she can't blame me anymore. I hope and pray that when she finally gets to that point, that she sees I'm trying to do what's right, not trying to abandon her and our family. In a way, I feel it's the only chance I have to save our family. But, if I scat and try to take Dancer with me, then that's an outright declaration of war, and there will be NO going back or salvaging our relationship. If it comes to me leaving (and I really hope it doesn't), I'll go on my own. If wife then "hits bottom" we can try to salvage our relationship. If she doesn't, then I'll be in a better position to do, well, whatever I have to for the safety of my children still left in the house. But I hope it doesn't come to that. In fact, a friend of mine even suggested that I move into the "man cave", i.e. my basement, before anything else. If the time comes, it's something to think about.... Mikey [/QUOTE]
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