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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 450343" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>I live on the "West Coast" as well and when I had X removed from the house, and filed for a legal separation, went to two different attorneys cause I thought the first one was delusional LOL Since he didn't work, and I did, I would have to fork over alimony to the tune of 1,500 and pay him some child support even though I had the kids, just so he could like, take them places. Plus the house he had gifted to me when it was purchased, there was a good chance I would have to give him half OR pay him half a paycheck for every paycheck I hearned becaused I used community property money to pay for it. </p><p></p><p>I was like...mmmmm, NO. So I am still legally separated. Was no way in L was I going to pay him alimony. I did bring up a divorce actually a few months ago...and he wants to see an attorney. Its been like 17 years and I thought we could just do it thru a para-legal - no such luck. I am worried about my 401 K because in Ca its his and law doesn't care about the kids unless he signs off on it. Attorney thinks I may be able to only give him half of what was in there at the time of separation.</p><p></p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 450343, member: 47"] I live on the "West Coast" as well and when I had X removed from the house, and filed for a legal separation, went to two different attorneys cause I thought the first one was delusional LOL Since he didn't work, and I did, I would have to fork over alimony to the tune of 1,500 and pay him some child support even though I had the kids, just so he could like, take them places. Plus the house he had gifted to me when it was purchased, there was a good chance I would have to give him half OR pay him half a paycheck for every paycheck I hearned becaused I used community property money to pay for it. I was like...mmmmm, NO. So I am still legally separated. Was no way in L was I going to pay him alimony. I did bring up a divorce actually a few months ago...and he wants to see an attorney. Its been like 17 years and I thought we could just do it thru a para-legal - no such luck. I am worried about my 401 K because in Ca its his and law doesn't care about the kids unless he signs off on it. Attorney thinks I may be able to only give him half of what was in there at the time of separation. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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