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<blockquote data-quote="ready2run" data-source="post: 464694" data-attributes="member: 11339"><p>you need to move out. even if you have to go on welfare or food stamps or go to a crisis center in order to do it. once you are out then you will be able to get it together, get peanut into daycare and find work. you may have to live in a small one bedroom apartment for a while, i did, but i felt good about it because it was mine and i had the freedom to do things my own way. do not let grandma babysit either. my mother stole my oldest child after i had to move back in with her for a few months and she called cas and told them i abused her and neglected her and abandoned her at their house, none of which was true. she ended up with custody and having faught her for YEARS i have only been able to get shared custody of her in which my mom calls the shots. i know it sounds wrong but i know it's because she hired an expensive lawyer, i had to take a legal aid lawyer and he didn't defend me properly. i did nothing to deserve this but i will say that my situation sounds alot like the one you are in now so i suggest you take your kid and get out while you can. start packing important papers, ect. into a box so that when it's time to go you won't have to spend all day rounding things up. you need to seperate yourself and your child as a distinct family unit, one that she is not an immediate part of. your mother is manipulating you and making you feel bad about yourself so that you will stay around and she will have someone to look after and feel important. the distance will be good for her as well, she obviously is having issues with the relationship. and she will get over it, she is your mother after all. putting your kid in daycare or something is good for him. is he not attending fulltime school yet at 7? ours start school at 3 or 4 here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ready2run, post: 464694, member: 11339"] you need to move out. even if you have to go on welfare or food stamps or go to a crisis center in order to do it. once you are out then you will be able to get it together, get peanut into daycare and find work. you may have to live in a small one bedroom apartment for a while, i did, but i felt good about it because it was mine and i had the freedom to do things my own way. do not let grandma babysit either. my mother stole my oldest child after i had to move back in with her for a few months and she called cas and told them i abused her and neglected her and abandoned her at their house, none of which was true. she ended up with custody and having faught her for YEARS i have only been able to get shared custody of her in which my mom calls the shots. i know it sounds wrong but i know it's because she hired an expensive lawyer, i had to take a legal aid lawyer and he didn't defend me properly. i did nothing to deserve this but i will say that my situation sounds alot like the one you are in now so i suggest you take your kid and get out while you can. start packing important papers, ect. into a box so that when it's time to go you won't have to spend all day rounding things up. you need to seperate yourself and your child as a distinct family unit, one that she is not an immediate part of. your mother is manipulating you and making you feel bad about yourself so that you will stay around and she will have someone to look after and feel important. the distance will be good for her as well, she obviously is having issues with the relationship. and she will get over it, she is your mother after all. putting your kid in daycare or something is good for him. is he not attending fulltime school yet at 7? ours start school at 3 or 4 here. [/QUOTE]
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