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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 527075"><p>WOW - does this thread hit home. I am most definitely a fixer. In every area of my life, I am a fixer. Maybe that is why we are all here? All fixers desperate to fix something we cannot fix? This post really made me think, Nancy. Thank you for posting this. I read it on my phone at the end of the work day yesterday and I believe it helped me last night with my difficult child. Though, it is SO hard not to lecture them and try to mold them how you want them to be. I realize I have been trying to make her just like me. I have not accepted her for who she is and I am constantly trying to change her. </p><p>So I guess I need to figure out how to support her and be there for her and yet, not try to change her. That is a tough one...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 527075"] WOW - does this thread hit home. I am most definitely a fixer. In every area of my life, I am a fixer. Maybe that is why we are all here? All fixers desperate to fix something we cannot fix? This post really made me think, Nancy. Thank you for posting this. I read it on my phone at the end of the work day yesterday and I believe it helped me last night with my difficult child. Though, it is SO hard not to lecture them and try to mold them how you want them to be. I realize I have been trying to make her just like me. I have not accepted her for who she is and I am constantly trying to change her. So I guess I need to figure out how to support her and be there for her and yet, not try to change her. That is a tough one... [/QUOTE]
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