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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 159198" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>I hear ya, Abbey! The family will just have to decide on their own when they should draw the line. It make take getting burned more than once before they wise up.</p><p> </p><p>My ex is exactly the same way! It took <strong><u>four years</u></strong> of loaning him money and never being repaid despite all his promises for his brothers and sisters to finally realize that they've been enabling him and that they weren't helping him by loaning him money! They were just making it easier for him to avoid taking responsibility for his own problems. When they finally cut him off, he called our daughter in S. Carolina. Against her better judgement, she and sister in law loaned him money that they really couldn't afford to lose because he swore he'd pay them back. He didn't. Then he called her AGAIN asking for more money! That finally did it and now she won't have anything to do with him. Then he called our son (who he has treated like doo-doo ever since he was a kid!) and asked him to loan him money! He had no intentions of giving his father any money. The next day ex called sons' cell phone <em>ten times</em> - he never answered. And that's what really got him! For years his whole relationship with his father has been two phone calls a year, on Christmas and his birthday. Then when HE wants something, he calls him ten times in one day! Everybody has their own breaking point and eventually they will reach theirs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 159198, member: 1883"] I hear ya, Abbey! The family will just have to decide on their own when they should draw the line. It make take getting burned more than once before they wise up. My ex is exactly the same way! It took [B][U]four years[/U][/B] of loaning him money and never being repaid despite all his promises for his brothers and sisters to finally realize that they've been enabling him and that they weren't helping him by loaning him money! They were just making it easier for him to avoid taking responsibility for his own problems. When they finally cut him off, he called our daughter in S. Carolina. Against her better judgement, she and sister in law loaned him money that they really couldn't afford to lose because he swore he'd pay them back. He didn't. Then he called her AGAIN asking for more money! That finally did it and now she won't have anything to do with him. Then he called our son (who he has treated like doo-doo ever since he was a kid!) and asked him to loan him money! He had no intentions of giving his father any money. The next day ex called sons' cell phone [I]ten times[/I] - he never answered. And that's what really got him! For years his whole relationship with his father has been two phone calls a year, on Christmas and his birthday. Then when HE wants something, he calls him ten times in one day! Everybody has their own breaking point and eventually they will reach theirs! [/QUOTE]
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