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<blockquote data-quote="Amity" data-source="post: 718260" data-attributes="member: 22179"><p>Wow Nomad been there often myself. Not exactly mind you but in general. </p><p>Each time it happens I worry how people will see me, how cold I'm seeming, how ugly my dismissive my behavior is. It is quite hard to get people to see what you do, or to know that what's best for you might not be them.</p><p></p><p>Example my ex wanted to hang out. Everything in me wants to say no thank you. </p><p>Even though we have kids together when he is around I disappear as if I'm not really here. He really just wants to come over to get a boost. Everyone drops what they are doing to give him attention. He talks only about himself, sulks/looking for a pick me up, if you talk about yourself, kids or other he jumps on his phone and plays candy crush. Always says how tired he is and if asked to help in any way he mentions how he has to get going. </p><p>So I get it. I have no advice as I'm not one that does well with saying no. When I do I'm the bad person. </p><p>I am just jumping on to say yuck</p><p>AND if you find a nice way to get what you need for you, please share your wisdom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Amity, post: 718260, member: 22179"] Wow Nomad been there often myself. Not exactly mind you but in general. Each time it happens I worry how people will see me, how cold I'm seeming, how ugly my dismissive my behavior is. It is quite hard to get people to see what you do, or to know that what's best for you might not be them. Example my ex wanted to hang out. Everything in me wants to say no thank you. Even though we have kids together when he is around I disappear as if I'm not really here. He really just wants to come over to get a boost. Everyone drops what they are doing to give him attention. He talks only about himself, sulks/looking for a pick me up, if you talk about yourself, kids or other he jumps on his phone and plays candy crush. Always says how tired he is and if asked to help in any way he mentions how he has to get going. So I get it. I have no advice as I'm not one that does well with saying no. When I do I'm the bad person. I am just jumping on to say yuck AND if you find a nice way to get what you need for you, please share your wisdom. [/QUOTE]
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