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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 79949" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>If the son in law is gone why do you have the cat? I think I would convert it to an "outdoor cat" if you have any interest in keeping it.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you gained some perspective on your daughter's viewpoint of her marriage. I do think she did an honorable thing when she joined the service. She was trying to cope with making a living and figuring out how to support her family since her hubby wasn't stepping up to the plate. I do think she was escaping to some degree, but she was young and didn't know how to get out of the marriage.....Now that she knows I think its probably time she filed for at least separation. She needs to untangle the finances, especially if HE is out spending anything available. Why do they have a NEW car? Does he work? other than driving people around? </p><p></p><p>Sounds to me like they need to part ways.....is he interested in being a father to their boy? That would be the only part I would worry about.....is there going to be a custody problem with her being in the service? I think I would start investigating that aspect.....and when asked give advice to your daughter about that......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 79949, member: 53"] If the son in law is gone why do you have the cat? I think I would convert it to an "outdoor cat" if you have any interest in keeping it. I am glad you gained some perspective on your daughter's viewpoint of her marriage. I do think she did an honorable thing when she joined the service. She was trying to cope with making a living and figuring out how to support her family since her hubby wasn't stepping up to the plate. I do think she was escaping to some degree, but she was young and didn't know how to get out of the marriage.....Now that she knows I think its probably time she filed for at least separation. She needs to untangle the finances, especially if HE is out spending anything available. Why do they have a NEW car? Does he work? other than driving people around? Sounds to me like they need to part ways.....is he interested in being a father to their boy? That would be the only part I would worry about.....is there going to be a custody problem with her being in the service? I think I would start investigating that aspect.....and when asked give advice to your daughter about that...... [/QUOTE]
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