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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 600725" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>I'm glad that your difficult child is safe or at least safer. </p><p></p><p>"Dying" man- that could be subjective, several times over the past two years while husband was awaiting surgery I thought he might be "dying" his blood pressure was certainly high enough at several points to have killed him though he was still going to work and doing normal army things that can and do kill people in poor health such as he was.it wouldn't have surprised me if he had died one morning doing physical training. So maybe true maybe exaggeration.</p><p></p><p>As far as it goes what it sounds like to me. I've seen my sister do this a few times when she was in a bad situation she did not want sister to save her she did not want mom to save her at least not on anything but her terms (accepting her husband into our home) but she would of accepted being "rescued" by a man because them it becomes romantic and not like she failed but that she formed a new "relationship".</p><p></p><p>Take that for whatever it's worth I thought it might resonate with you.</p><p></p><p>Also I have no idea about your difficult child but I think this is the difficult child that her bad man crashed her into a wall in her van? It's conceivable that he was also doing quite a bit of what she said in my opinion. And her ex had never showed up for whatever reason she has chosen to take it? Or maybe wasn't ever really alone? Maybe Stockholm syndrome? I don't know, I do know abusive relationships are hard to walk away from and no one ever really understands it but the person who lives it and even they don't really understand.</p><p></p><p>Anyway I'm glad you had better news and hope you get to put your arms around her in the near future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 600725, member: 16184"] I'm glad that your difficult child is safe or at least safer. "Dying" man- that could be subjective, several times over the past two years while husband was awaiting surgery I thought he might be "dying" his blood pressure was certainly high enough at several points to have killed him though he was still going to work and doing normal army things that can and do kill people in poor health such as he was.it wouldn't have surprised me if he had died one morning doing physical training. So maybe true maybe exaggeration. As far as it goes what it sounds like to me. I've seen my sister do this a few times when she was in a bad situation she did not want sister to save her she did not want mom to save her at least not on anything but her terms (accepting her husband into our home) but she would of accepted being "rescued" by a man because them it becomes romantic and not like she failed but that she formed a new "relationship". Take that for whatever it's worth I thought it might resonate with you. Also I have no idea about your difficult child but I think this is the difficult child that her bad man crashed her into a wall in her van? It's conceivable that he was also doing quite a bit of what she said in my opinion. And her ex had never showed up for whatever reason she has chosen to take it? Or maybe wasn't ever really alone? Maybe Stockholm syndrome? I don't know, I do know abusive relationships are hard to walk away from and no one ever really understands it but the person who lives it and even they don't really understand. Anyway I'm glad you had better news and hope you get to put your arms around her in the near future. [/QUOTE]
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