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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 89414" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Hi old friend. I am so sorry things have come to this. Quite honestly I am surprised that you let him in your house at all. I know you love him, no one is asking you to stop loving him, but I fear you are putting yourself in danger again. Please take care of you and let him find his own way for a while. </p><p></p><p>This business of putting yorself out there for him isn't working. You have tried so hard to save him to no avail. He simply isn't ready. You have to accept that no one can save him but himself. He has to want it and be willing to work at it. It doesn't seem like he meets either of those criteria. </p><p></p><p>In my opinion you have ignored your own needs for too long. It is time you changed the locks and focused on yourself. Find your way out of that slum. You are your primary responsibility now. That is all you have the power to change, only yourself and your circumstance. </p><p></p><p>Your anger is so apparent it seems almost ready to consume you. I can tell you are in need of peace. Go find it let yur difficult child fend for himself for a while... at least until he is ready to do the necessary work to get back on track.</p><p>-RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 89414, member: 2315"] Hi old friend. I am so sorry things have come to this. Quite honestly I am surprised that you let him in your house at all. I know you love him, no one is asking you to stop loving him, but I fear you are putting yourself in danger again. Please take care of you and let him find his own way for a while. This business of putting yorself out there for him isn't working. You have tried so hard to save him to no avail. He simply isn't ready. You have to accept that no one can save him but himself. He has to want it and be willing to work at it. It doesn't seem like he meets either of those criteria. In my opinion you have ignored your own needs for too long. It is time you changed the locks and focused on yourself. Find your way out of that slum. You are your primary responsibility now. That is all you have the power to change, only yourself and your circumstance. Your anger is so apparent it seems almost ready to consume you. I can tell you are in need of peace. Go find it let yur difficult child fend for himself for a while... at least until he is ready to do the necessary work to get back on track. -RM [/QUOTE]
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