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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 355862" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I don't choose where he goes if he's court ordered and the courts are paying- he has to go to this place. And this place requires he see the same therapist he started with there- they never let him see another one. If he has mental illness, yes I'd want him treated- with appropriate treatment for it. But according to Department of Juvenile Justice, he does not. This sytem sent difficult child to a psychiatric hospital but refused to follow psychiatrist's recommendations. Then this systeem seent difficult child to Department of Juvenile Justice instead and now are refusing to accept Department of Juvenile Justice's recommendations. What am I supposed to tell a therapist wwhen he asks why we are there- that it's the only way the defense attny could get difficult child out of detention and the PO said he wants to give difficult child one more chance before recommending recommittal? What kind of message is that sending difficult child? What would these people say if they (when) they thought I was using MI as an excuse to cover for difficult child?</p><p></p><p>I now have a call into defense attny, too. I want to ask both of them what plan b is because I'm seriouusly weighing whether or not to walk away from this now. I don't know if I'm going to tell them that part but they can figure it out I'm sure- especially if I don't show up for courtt next week. PO knew about all this- we sat and discussed it before court so for them to pick this one "solution" to propose and both be in agreement of it looks awful suspicious to me.There's no way I can have any faith in this plan working- it's another set up for difficult child to fail and both PO and def attny said they doubted difficult child would make it without messing up. I feel like if I go along with this I am just leading him back into getting into more trouble. Especially knowing that all tdocs we've seen on an outpatient basis have only approached this one of two ways- either they buy difficult child's sob story of all his problems being because I'm too strict so difficult child should get to do what he wants at home or they try to get to the issues but about the time they open up emotional stuff, the appointment is over and they send us home and difficult child either becomees an emotional basketcase or explodes and becomes aggressive with me. been there done that for 3 years prior to his committal to Department of Juvenile Justice. The liason sure won't say "oops, I made a mistake last year when I didn't sign a psychiatrist's form for Residential Treatment Center (RTC) because PO didn't want to go that route- maybe I should have told PO what treatment I thought difficult child should get".</p><p></p><p>I think def attny told me he had ordered a mental health evaluation on difficult child now. If so, it will be interesting to see how that comes out- what are they going to put? He has BiPolar (BP) but we sent him to Department of Juvenile Justice instead of psychiatric Residential Treatment Center (RTC) so now we're recommending outpatient? Or he has no MI but we're recommending mental health treatment?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 355862, member: 3699"] I don't choose where he goes if he's court ordered and the courts are paying- he has to go to this place. And this place requires he see the same therapist he started with there- they never let him see another one. If he has mental illness, yes I'd want him treated- with appropriate treatment for it. But according to Department of Juvenile Justice, he does not. This sytem sent difficult child to a psychiatric hospital but refused to follow psychiatrist's recommendations. Then this systeem seent difficult child to Department of Juvenile Justice instead and now are refusing to accept Department of Juvenile Justice's recommendations. What am I supposed to tell a therapist wwhen he asks why we are there- that it's the only way the defense attny could get difficult child out of detention and the PO said he wants to give difficult child one more chance before recommending recommittal? What kind of message is that sending difficult child? What would these people say if they (when) they thought I was using MI as an excuse to cover for difficult child? I now have a call into defense attny, too. I want to ask both of them what plan b is because I'm seriouusly weighing whether or not to walk away from this now. I don't know if I'm going to tell them that part but they can figure it out I'm sure- especially if I don't show up for courtt next week. PO knew about all this- we sat and discussed it before court so for them to pick this one "solution" to propose and both be in agreement of it looks awful suspicious to me.There's no way I can have any faith in this plan working- it's another set up for difficult child to fail and both PO and def attny said they doubted difficult child would make it without messing up. I feel like if I go along with this I am just leading him back into getting into more trouble. Especially knowing that all tdocs we've seen on an outpatient basis have only approached this one of two ways- either they buy difficult child's sob story of all his problems being because I'm too strict so difficult child should get to do what he wants at home or they try to get to the issues but about the time they open up emotional stuff, the appointment is over and they send us home and difficult child either becomees an emotional basketcase or explodes and becomes aggressive with me. been there done that for 3 years prior to his committal to Department of Juvenile Justice. The liason sure won't say "oops, I made a mistake last year when I didn't sign a psychiatrist's form for Residential Treatment Center (RTC) because PO didn't want to go that route- maybe I should have told PO what treatment I thought difficult child should get". I think def attny told me he had ordered a mental health evaluation on difficult child now. If so, it will be interesting to see how that comes out- what are they going to put? He has BiPolar (BP) but we sent him to Department of Juvenile Justice instead of psychiatric Residential Treatment Center (RTC) so now we're recommending outpatient? Or he has no MI but we're recommending mental health treatment? [/QUOTE]
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