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I dont respond. The back and forth annoys me.


I leave. There is no talk if my son chooses to be antagonistic or plain isnt nice. But he is usually nice to me because he knows that if he isnt, I disappear for three days. I will block him. And he lives far away.


I absolutely understand shutting down the noise. I just do it by forcing it to end. My son would never be staying at my house but if he was visiting for a day and started trouble I would either lock myself in a room, take a drive or make him leave.; I did so when he spit at me at age 20 and he lived in motels until his father gave him a place to stay...and it was no bowl of cherries for my ex.


This particular son can not live withe again. My others could beccause they wouldnt unless desperate and would follow rules. And leave ASAP. But my oldest....thank God for hos good jo and brains. He cant ever live with my hisband and myself..


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