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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 538618" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>This really seem to depend from the situation you are in and lifestyle you are having, I notice.</p><p></p><p>We have often over-night guest, or ages and all sexes. We and our kids also quite often spend a night under someone else's roof. Sometimes our over-night guests are not people we would know that well. For example last one was a son of my husband's friend. he was having University entrance exams in the city near us and husband offered to give him a place to sleep and some rides from and back to airport. So to be honest i don't really mind a unfamiliar face in my breakfast table and in the end it doesn't matter, if that unfamiliar face is having sex with my son or not. So their friends, both male and female and romantically involved or not, are welcome and can stay a night. And we have often had sons' friends with us on our boat to keep them company, doesn't really matter that nowadays those friends are often their girlfriends. Last time we were on our boat we had also husband's little sister and her family with us and difficult child was with his girlfriend. Our boat is small and there are three sleeping cabins. One with wider mattress (sister in law slept there with her husband and their two small kids) and two with bunkbeds. And you can bet that when two people had to share on 2,5 foot wide bed, those people were difficult child and his girlfriend, not me and my husband. They had easy child sleeping in upper bed and I'm quite sure there was no sex involved <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>I also have no worries of getting stuck with living with my children. Local social security makes it so, that it is no financial necessity ever to keep living with your parents. Our difficult child is already out of the house and pays his own rent and I can see him back only temporarily (for example if his sport career would melt and he would be going to Uni sooner than later and then got a summer job somewhere near here and came back home for summer or something like that.) easy child I hope will stay with us until he is around twenty (High school takes more time here and then there is military, he will be around twenty or twenty one when he is through with those.) But i really don't have to worry for them staying over their welcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 538618, member: 14557"] This really seem to depend from the situation you are in and lifestyle you are having, I notice. We have often over-night guest, or ages and all sexes. We and our kids also quite often spend a night under someone else's roof. Sometimes our over-night guests are not people we would know that well. For example last one was a son of my husband's friend. he was having University entrance exams in the city near us and husband offered to give him a place to sleep and some rides from and back to airport. So to be honest i don't really mind a unfamiliar face in my breakfast table and in the end it doesn't matter, if that unfamiliar face is having sex with my son or not. So their friends, both male and female and romantically involved or not, are welcome and can stay a night. And we have often had sons' friends with us on our boat to keep them company, doesn't really matter that nowadays those friends are often their girlfriends. Last time we were on our boat we had also husband's little sister and her family with us and difficult child was with his girlfriend. Our boat is small and there are three sleeping cabins. One with wider mattress (sister in law slept there with her husband and their two small kids) and two with bunkbeds. And you can bet that when two people had to share on 2,5 foot wide bed, those people were difficult child and his girlfriend, not me and my husband. They had easy child sleeping in upper bed and I'm quite sure there was no sex involved :winking: I also have no worries of getting stuck with living with my children. Local social security makes it so, that it is no financial necessity ever to keep living with your parents. Our difficult child is already out of the house and pays his own rent and I can see him back only temporarily (for example if his sport career would melt and he would be going to Uni sooner than later and then got a summer job somewhere near here and came back home for summer or something like that.) easy child I hope will stay with us until he is around twenty (High school takes more time here and then there is military, he will be around twenty or twenty one when he is through with those.) But i really don't have to worry for them staying over their welcome. [/QUOTE]
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