Hi all...My 11 year old son, whom I suspect suffers from ODD, had a meltdown yesterday serious enough for my husband to take him to the emergency room. While they were gone I searched the net, found this site, read some of the posts, and headed to the health food store where I bought fish oil and a calcium/magnesium supplement. I am desperate, as I read many of you were until you found the 'key' to unlock your child's prison door. I want to have him tested for food allergies. My pediatrician does not know where to send him for heavy metal testing, which is something I read about last week on the internet. There seem to be a thousand ways to start this journey. I want to take the path that leads to some improvement soon! He is now having these rages more frequently and last week had one at church. No problem at school yet, but don't want it to start there so the kids don't tag his as 'different'...he's in sixth grade. Any advice for getting started?