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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 129713" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ask her. Check out her demeanor when she answers you. She could have more than ADHD going on--seizures or mood disorders or the medications affecting her--I used to have rages (young with bipolar), but I remembered them and felt and acted very upset afterwards because it bothered me so much that I couldn't seem to control myself. Acting like it never happened, not even saying "sorry", would puzzle me as a mother. Has she been better on her medication?</p><p>My grandmother was my champion and we were close to the end. My mom really didn't "get" me at all. She thought I did the stuff on purpose when really I hated, hated, hated myself for doing that, so it was good for me to stay with grandma at times. But all situations are different. If she is truly in control of her behavior, then I'd call it enabling. If not, well, then your daughter still shouldn't be allowed to talk about you that way to your own mother. And Grandma shouldn't listen to her when she talks that way. It's disrespectful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 129713, member: 1550"] Ask her. Check out her demeanor when she answers you. She could have more than ADHD going on--seizures or mood disorders or the medications affecting her--I used to have rages (young with bipolar), but I remembered them and felt and acted very upset afterwards because it bothered me so much that I couldn't seem to control myself. Acting like it never happened, not even saying "sorry", would puzzle me as a mother. Has she been better on her medication? My grandmother was my champion and we were close to the end. My mom really didn't "get" me at all. She thought I did the stuff on purpose when really I hated, hated, hated myself for doing that, so it was good for me to stay with grandma at times. But all situations are different. If she is truly in control of her behavior, then I'd call it enabling. If not, well, then your daughter still shouldn't be allowed to talk about you that way to your own mother. And Grandma shouldn't listen to her when she talks that way. It's disrespectful. [/QUOTE]
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