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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 602913"><p>They have not been tested by a neuropsychologist because for one I need doctors referrals and they say they see nothing wrong.. (I have been to the doctors etc for help) a little shy they say my daughter is and my son is just a boy..all boy. Son as been seen at a pysc something dr( when the finally gave me a referral after me nagging for a couple years) he said I needed to let him grow and its all me because I cried when they said nothing was wrong with him. Let him grow, still dont get that one, he was all day school, sports, playdates, family, neighbors, yard time, love I gave /give him responsibility, love, guide them but depending what it was know they have to learn from their mistakes as well. I let them live their life. One Dr said maybe learning disability cuz of his grades, or add. My son even admitted its hard to sit still all day, teacher has to repeat directions etc. ( teacher told me too) I don't know I said before about them moving with there dad that he less strict- - he has no rules!!!!!!! Oh at first he does but than honeymoon period ends. He will let them do or go whenever or wherever. Anyway enough of that. </p><p></p><p>I see what your saying and I wasnt trying to completely self diagnoses, just what it seems like. My son acts this at home as well as well as with all family..friends ..School he hasn't had tantrums yet or showed anger. My daughter at home when its just me and her she talks more talks about her comp games, art cooking stuff, she loves to text friends and her aunt and will do that non stop.</p><p></p><p>You said "I don't think you are going down the right path with either child...... later "Honey, I say this with gentleness...your son is not happy if he has tantrums that often."<p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p><p>See, your right they r not happy.. so I believe if they move w their dad they will be happy. They will be perfectly fine and most of these issues will be solved for them. I have been trying to get them help.. even was going to make another appointment ..again.. with their Dr tomorrow. Im not trying to take it the wrong way what u said, I know disorders can make them not happy or have the ability to have expressions or to understand expressions etc... right from wrong.... and they / we all need help. But I still believe its me, all my fault, besides, thats what I been told </p><p></p><p>Sorry your son was misdiagnosed at first but glad hes now properly diagnosed <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Thank you, I appreciate your feed back and I pray things keep getting better for you and your family hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 602913"] They have not been tested by a neuropsychologist because for one I need doctors referrals and they say they see nothing wrong.. (I have been to the doctors etc for help) a little shy they say my daughter is and my son is just a boy..all boy. Son as been seen at a pysc something dr( when the finally gave me a referral after me nagging for a couple years) he said I needed to let him grow and its all me because I cried when they said nothing was wrong with him. Let him grow, still dont get that one, he was all day school, sports, playdates, family, neighbors, yard time, love I gave /give him responsibility, love, guide them but depending what it was know they have to learn from their mistakes as well. I let them live their life. One Dr said maybe learning disability cuz of his grades, or add. My son even admitted its hard to sit still all day, teacher has to repeat directions etc. ( teacher told me too) I don't know I said before about them moving with there dad that he less strict- - he has no rules!!!!!!! Oh at first he does but than honeymoon period ends. He will let them do or go whenever or wherever. Anyway enough of that. I see what your saying and I wasnt trying to completely self diagnoses, just what it seems like. My son acts this at home as well as well as with all family..friends ..School he hasn't had tantrums yet or showed anger. My daughter at home when its just me and her she talks more talks about her comp games, art cooking stuff, she loves to text friends and her aunt and will do that non stop. You said "I don't think you are going down the right path with either child...... later "Honey, I say this with gentleness...your son is not happy if he has tantrums that often."[LEFT][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/LEFT] See, your right they r not happy.. so I believe if they move w their dad they will be happy. They will be perfectly fine and most of these issues will be solved for them. I have been trying to get them help.. even was going to make another appointment ..again.. with their Dr tomorrow. Im not trying to take it the wrong way what u said, I know disorders can make them not happy or have the ability to have expressions or to understand expressions etc... right from wrong.... and they / we all need help. But I still believe its me, all my fault, besides, thats what I been told Sorry your son was misdiagnosed at first but glad hes now properly diagnosed :) Thank you, I appreciate your feed back and I pray things keep getting better for you and your family hugs [/QUOTE]
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