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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 603075"><p>MidwestMom,I tried to get an appointment with one before, even my neighbor tried because she knew the Dr! But they still wanted a referral. I gotta try again. At first their dad may act with rules etc, but he will slack off, have no rules, I mean when my daughter was 5/6 years old he said bedtime was 10pm on a school night, even tho she takes forever to get up as is! He is let them do as they wish thing overall, and so much Im not saying here. He blames me as well, but yet says Im a good mom? I do love my kids sooooooooo much and its killing me to have them going through, us going through this. Oh, my daughter on the bathing used to love it, I couldn't get her out, and she'd really scrub up! I am trying to remember the age she stopped,. She gets soooo mad at me and yells when I kindly bring up bathing to her and reminding her "how" and that talk about"mother nature" gets her mad! Like shes embarrassed or something? I have now decided to not let her play with- elctronics or leave this house unless she properly bathes. I mean with a E.R of course we leave thats different. I let her leave soo many times with dirt grime on her neck, stinky, oily hair etc. I mean , if u shower properly and still smell, thats different. But not to give an effort yikes! </p><p></p><p>DDD, I did keep a diary of my sons issues as well as some on video and the DR.s DIDNT want to see it! I was shocked!!! Only the nurse at his school said she'd look but said it sarcastically like even so, it probably was nothing! Dont get me wrong, I have yelled back like a child after hours of tantrums, etc, I know is a nono. Thank you, I will start back up again. Like tonight he said someone was outside his window..again...staring at him. I dont know y hes started this. I got upset and looked, reassured him all was fine and I did yell! Im praying hes just saying this to try to get me to sleep in his room with him I don't know. </p><p></p><p>InsaneCdn, I agree with you in 99% of girls are more social. But in my case, my son is the outgoing one and my daughter is beyond obviously quite and not showing emotion esp in public. Home shes quite still but more a lil more chatty and will throw a smile and def can hear my two being vocal when she and her brother fight. Her teachers every year always say how quite but how smart she is. 1st grade said take her to drama class to open up but she didnt want to and frankly I couldnt find one here for her age. But through the years, shes been a cheerleader, but quite and not shakin her butt as much as the others, she reads from the Bible in mass at the front and she loves it. When spoken to, her voice is low and she will answer with a few words depending on the question. I get comments at the places we volunteered at. Even though my best friend has been around for 12 years, she still doesn't speak to her unless I direct her to! She was fine at 4yrs old, a little more quite at 5 years old and 6 years old that was it! </p><p></p><p>When I find a job, I am considering a dog again. Im back and fourth because of my kids issues but yet, when they are with the dogs, they have something to help, feed , love, etc. My son has threatened the cages but never has lost it on them and he was / is really good with dogs. I feel maybe it would help them? I think my son would feel safer with a dog here, as if its here to " protect him". My best friend said again, she feels a dog would be additional therapy for my kids. I don't know. :/.. thanks everyone hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 603075"] MidwestMom,I tried to get an appointment with one before, even my neighbor tried because she knew the Dr! But they still wanted a referral. I gotta try again. At first their dad may act with rules etc, but he will slack off, have no rules, I mean when my daughter was 5/6 years old he said bedtime was 10pm on a school night, even tho she takes forever to get up as is! He is let them do as they wish thing overall, and so much Im not saying here. He blames me as well, but yet says Im a good mom? I do love my kids sooooooooo much and its killing me to have them going through, us going through this. Oh, my daughter on the bathing used to love it, I couldn't get her out, and she'd really scrub up! I am trying to remember the age she stopped,. She gets soooo mad at me and yells when I kindly bring up bathing to her and reminding her "how" and that talk about"mother nature" gets her mad! Like shes embarrassed or something? I have now decided to not let her play with- elctronics or leave this house unless she properly bathes. I mean with a E.R of course we leave thats different. I let her leave soo many times with dirt grime on her neck, stinky, oily hair etc. I mean , if u shower properly and still smell, thats different. But not to give an effort yikes! DDD, I did keep a diary of my sons issues as well as some on video and the DR.s DIDNT want to see it! I was shocked!!! Only the nurse at his school said she'd look but said it sarcastically like even so, it probably was nothing! Dont get me wrong, I have yelled back like a child after hours of tantrums, etc, I know is a nono. Thank you, I will start back up again. Like tonight he said someone was outside his window..again...staring at him. I dont know y hes started this. I got upset and looked, reassured him all was fine and I did yell! Im praying hes just saying this to try to get me to sleep in his room with him I don't know. InsaneCdn, I agree with you in 99% of girls are more social. But in my case, my son is the outgoing one and my daughter is beyond obviously quite and not showing emotion esp in public. Home shes quite still but more a lil more chatty and will throw a smile and def can hear my two being vocal when she and her brother fight. Her teachers every year always say how quite but how smart she is. 1st grade said take her to drama class to open up but she didnt want to and frankly I couldnt find one here for her age. But through the years, shes been a cheerleader, but quite and not shakin her butt as much as the others, she reads from the Bible in mass at the front and she loves it. When spoken to, her voice is low and she will answer with a few words depending on the question. I get comments at the places we volunteered at. Even though my best friend has been around for 12 years, she still doesn't speak to her unless I direct her to! She was fine at 4yrs old, a little more quite at 5 years old and 6 years old that was it! When I find a job, I am considering a dog again. Im back and fourth because of my kids issues but yet, when they are with the dogs, they have something to help, feed , love, etc. My son has threatened the cages but never has lost it on them and he was / is really good with dogs. I feel maybe it would help them? I think my son would feel safer with a dog here, as if its here to " protect him". My best friend said again, she feels a dog would be additional therapy for my kids. I don't know. :/.. thanks everyone hugs [/QUOTE]
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