Well difficult child comes home for yet another home visit this weekend and I'm already stressing about it. He called me tonight to see if I've talked to his caseworker, like I have all day to make 20 calls to the same office until you actually get a person and work full time in a busy doctors office. He just doesn't get it I do not have time to do this stuff!!!! He is so worried they won't get the paperwork thru for his pass. And get this when i told him I want us, just the family to spend some time together this weekend he said well what do you have planed? I told him I wanted to go to the camp ground from Saturday morning to Sunday morning (we have a seasonal site and our camper stays there)just us no friends or commotion just relax with family. He says I'll go to see what you got but I'm not staying. What the ????? This boy is the most selfish kid I' ve ever known. I have put my life on hold for over 3 years because of his bull crap and he can't even spend 24 hours with his family!!!!!! He feels that he only has from Friday to Sunday afternoon and he won't have any time to be "home". What about all the 2 1/2 hour one way trips I took to go see him, what about the missed time at work to go to meetings, the courthouse, school, etc. This boy has been away since March and NOTHING has changed it's still all about him I am just so angry. He puts on the show at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) to get by but nothing has changed!!! I told his counselor about the camping trip and he says it would be a good idea. But I'm telling you there is NO WAY he will go. I am so sick of this. Come May 2008 I beleive I will posting "How I kicked difficult child out of the house" He's also saying already that he want to just get a GED instead of goiong to school when he gets home. HE HAS 2 YEARS OF SCHOOL LEFT!!!!!!! (SCREAM................) I really don't know if I can take this. ANY AND I MEAN ANY ADVISE......PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!