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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 240330" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>everywomen, I don't have experience with addiction so take this with a grain of salt. </p><p>I think that there is a great love between you and husband. It was strong enough to get through the first episode of drugs and redemption . You rebuilt your lives based on the memory of the good things in your relationship. </p><p>However if the past is an indicator of the future, this may very well be a pattern. Love doesn't get nourished with lies and deceit. All you will have is the empty facade of what you once had. </p><p>No one would fault you if you left. No one would blame you if you stayed and had a different sort of relationship with your spouse. The one thing for certain is it will never be as it was. I would think it will all be based on what kind of life you see yourself living. </p><p>Hugs. Any one of us in long term marriages could be at a similar crossroads with different issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 240330, member: 3"] everywomen, I don't have experience with addiction so take this with a grain of salt. I think that there is a great love between you and husband. It was strong enough to get through the first episode of drugs and redemption . You rebuilt your lives based on the memory of the good things in your relationship. However if the past is an indicator of the future, this may very well be a pattern. Love doesn't get nourished with lies and deceit. All you will have is the empty facade of what you once had. No one would fault you if you left. No one would blame you if you stayed and had a different sort of relationship with your spouse. The one thing for certain is it will never be as it was. I would think it will all be based on what kind of life you see yourself living. Hugs. Any one of us in long term marriages could be at a similar crossroads with different issues. [/QUOTE]
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