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Just spoke to difficult child.....
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<blockquote data-quote="JKF" data-source="post: 628385" data-attributes="member: 12470"><p>And now his status reads "If I die, I hope my family is happy. You don't want to help me, yet you say you love me? You know Mom.....F**k you. You don't care what happens. If I do f'ing die, I will be happy. "F" what everyone says. It's only what they show that counts......."</p><p></p><p>So there you have it. The blame game. The guilt trip. We're all villains and he's the victim. He's basically saying at the end that "actions speak louder than words", something I've tried to teach him many many times. How ironic. Yes - actions DO speak louder than words difficult child! YOUR actions speak volumes and at this point your words mean nothing!</p><p></p><p>Ugggggh!!!!! This is the type of thing that we have had to deal with over and over and over again with him. He blames EVERYONE but himself. All of the sleepless nights I've had, all of the worrying I've done, the countless times I've made myself sick, and jeopardized my relationships with my easy child and husband, every phone call and appointment I've made on his behalf. The money I've spent to get him across country. The money he stole numerous times from us and his grandfather and other family members and friends. The fact that he destroyed everything his grandfather has worked for. The chaos and fear that he constantly brings into our lives. He doesn't care about ANY of that! He sees no wrongdoing on his part and has no remorse for any of it. It's truly terrifying.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JKF, post: 628385, member: 12470"] And now his status reads "If I die, I hope my family is happy. You don't want to help me, yet you say you love me? You know Mom.....F**k you. You don't care what happens. If I do f'ing die, I will be happy. "F" what everyone says. It's only what they show that counts......." So there you have it. The blame game. The guilt trip. We're all villains and he's the victim. He's basically saying at the end that "actions speak louder than words", something I've tried to teach him many many times. How ironic. Yes - actions DO speak louder than words difficult child! YOUR actions speak volumes and at this point your words mean nothing! Ugggggh!!!!! This is the type of thing that we have had to deal with over and over and over again with him. He blames EVERYONE but himself. All of the sleepless nights I've had, all of the worrying I've done, the countless times I've made myself sick, and jeopardized my relationships with my easy child and husband, every phone call and appointment I've made on his behalf. The money I've spent to get him across country. The money he stole numerous times from us and his grandfather and other family members and friends. The fact that he destroyed everything his grandfather has worked for. The chaos and fear that he constantly brings into our lives. He doesn't care about ANY of that! He sees no wrongdoing on his part and has no remorse for any of it. It's truly terrifying. [/QUOTE]
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