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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 628419" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>JFK,</p><p></p><p>Been following this, and think i told you earlier your difficult child reminds me so much of my much older difficult child. Same game plan. Messed up, but blames everybody else. Like my difficult child, i believe yours to be a survivor. Life is important to him; he is too special and noteworthy to take his life. Guilting others to pay his way is totally do-able. In smaller ways it has paid off before. Of course, ramp it up and see what happens. He has nothing to lose.</p><p></p><p>Our difficult child has gone quiet now---after ramping it up with us for weeks and getting $$ from my parents. We assume he has found somebody else to mooch off. Sure, we would love to believe he has found a better way (supporting himself), but realize that is not realistic.</p><p></p><p>husband and I wish we had detached a decade ago.</p><p></p><p>We can hope and pray. Nothing else has ever helped him.</p><p></p><p>Stay on the alert and safe. This WILL pass.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 628419, member: 17635"] JFK, Been following this, and think i told you earlier your difficult child reminds me so much of my much older difficult child. Same game plan. Messed up, but blames everybody else. Like my difficult child, i believe yours to be a survivor. Life is important to him; he is too special and noteworthy to take his life. Guilting others to pay his way is totally do-able. In smaller ways it has paid off before. Of course, ramp it up and see what happens. He has nothing to lose. Our difficult child has gone quiet now---after ramping it up with us for weeks and getting $$ from my parents. We assume he has found somebody else to mooch off. Sure, we would love to believe he has found a better way (supporting himself), but realize that is not realistic. husband and I wish we had detached a decade ago. We can hope and pray. Nothing else has ever helped him. Stay on the alert and safe. This WILL pass. [/QUOTE]
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