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just threw my 16-yr-old difficult child & friends out for smoking weed at my house...
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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 294484" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>Good for you!!!</p><p> I am getting much help from Families Anonamous (online) .</p><p> I love their saying : Watch the hips, not the lips.</p><p>I also set boundaries in my own home One of them is no smoking weed,drinking, or smoking cigs. She smoles outsdie. I willnot buy cigs for her. Currently difficult child (16) is staying in teen flophouse. I learned that many parents share the phiolasophy of let them use in theri home but not me!!!</p><p> It is theri walk, not ehri talk. Sadly, my daughter rally does not want recovery at this time so we have to majorlly enforce boudnaries and protect ourselves. </p><p> She has not stolen checks or credit cards in a few weeks. She has raged to get more money but we are adhering tothe limits of $15 a day, giving her food, and having her take her medications. </p><p> It will be a long , long time before I can trust her. It will have to be by her actions. i so want to beleive her words. I am greivng the girl I ahd rasied her to be, not the one she is choosing to be. It is sad,sad, sad, but I am not being a victim today.</p><p> She is so impulsice she really needs almost a lock down facility. We are trying to put inplace intiensive community services to keepher in the community. </p><p> When I see her, I have limited money and keep it on me at all times. I lock mykey to my waist. If she uses violence to intimidate me like she did on Wed.:she would tear my grashipft out of muy car, I said id she did I would call the cops and I meant it. </p><p> A few others I love:</p><p>No is a complete serntecne.</p><p> Mean what I say, say what I mean, do not say it mean.</p><p>Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 294484, member: 6393"] Good for you!!! I am getting much help from Families Anonamous (online) . I love their saying : Watch the hips, not the lips. I also set boundaries in my own home One of them is no smoking weed,drinking, or smoking cigs. She smoles outsdie. I willnot buy cigs for her. Currently difficult child (16) is staying in teen flophouse. I learned that many parents share the phiolasophy of let them use in theri home but not me!!! It is theri walk, not ehri talk. Sadly, my daughter rally does not want recovery at this time so we have to majorlly enforce boudnaries and protect ourselves. She has not stolen checks or credit cards in a few weeks. She has raged to get more money but we are adhering tothe limits of $15 a day, giving her food, and having her take her medications. It will be a long , long time before I can trust her. It will have to be by her actions. i so want to beleive her words. I am greivng the girl I ahd rasied her to be, not the one she is choosing to be. It is sad,sad, sad, but I am not being a victim today. She is so impulsice she really needs almost a lock down facility. We are trying to put inplace intiensive community services to keepher in the community. When I see her, I have limited money and keep it on me at all times. I lock mykey to my waist. If she uses violence to intimidate me like she did on Wed.:she would tear my grashipft out of muy car, I said id she did I would call the cops and I meant it. A few others I love: No is a complete serntecne. Mean what I say, say what I mean, do not say it mean. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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