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just threw my 16-yr-old difficult child & friends out for smoking weed at my house...
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 295264" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>RD and Compassion I can't believe we are all living the same life.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child is also adopted at birth, chooses reckless and antisocial behavior, has a mood disorder but I'm really thinking it's now bipolar, and has hated and resented us for 18 years because she is adopted. I was a stay at home mom all her life trying to find any help I could. We spent our entire savings on doctors and programs to no avail.</p><p></p><p>And yes it is all my fault, whatever happens to her is my fault. It was my fault that she used drugs and was unruly and had to go to detention. It is my fault that she hates living here because I am so mean and we won't let her abuse us anymore. Today she wrote me a letter and told me she hates living here so much but has no place else to go and I'm just jealous that she and her boyfriend have sex and love each other!!! I told her that husband and I love each other more than she is capable of every loving anyone. In all honesty I wish she and her boyfriend would run off and get married. I can't wait until he finds out what she is really like.</p><p></p><p>I found a Families Anonymous meeting right in my own backyard practically and I'm going to my first meeting Friday. I'm tired of being angry all the time and living my life afraid to leave my home for what she will do. She has put holes in the walls, broken doors, ruined carpeting, trashed her room, bathroom and the basement and the house is only ten years old. She completely trashed her car in six months and it is permanently gone from here now. She has lost every friend she ever had, has embarrassed herself and us on so many occasions, and has been fired from three jobs.</p><p></p><p>I don't know what goes wrong in someone's brain to hate so much and make everyone's life so miserable when they have been given everything in life they need or want. I truly believe there are women who should never have children. My difficult child is one of them. If she has children it will continue the cycle and more lives will be ruined.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 295264, member: 59"] RD and Compassion I can't believe we are all living the same life. My difficult child is also adopted at birth, chooses reckless and antisocial behavior, has a mood disorder but I'm really thinking it's now bipolar, and has hated and resented us for 18 years because she is adopted. I was a stay at home mom all her life trying to find any help I could. We spent our entire savings on doctors and programs to no avail. And yes it is all my fault, whatever happens to her is my fault. It was my fault that she used drugs and was unruly and had to go to detention. It is my fault that she hates living here because I am so mean and we won't let her abuse us anymore. Today she wrote me a letter and told me she hates living here so much but has no place else to go and I'm just jealous that she and her boyfriend have sex and love each other!!! I told her that husband and I love each other more than she is capable of every loving anyone. In all honesty I wish she and her boyfriend would run off and get married. I can't wait until he finds out what she is really like. I found a Families Anonymous meeting right in my own backyard practically and I'm going to my first meeting Friday. I'm tired of being angry all the time and living my life afraid to leave my home for what she will do. She has put holes in the walls, broken doors, ruined carpeting, trashed her room, bathroom and the basement and the house is only ten years old. She completely trashed her car in six months and it is permanently gone from here now. She has lost every friend she ever had, has embarrassed herself and us on so many occasions, and has been fired from three jobs. I don't know what goes wrong in someone's brain to hate so much and make everyone's life so miserable when they have been given everything in life they need or want. I truly believe there are women who should never have children. My difficult child is one of them. If she has children it will continue the cycle and more lives will be ruined. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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