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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 509980" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>HOLY HECK BATmom! </p><p></p><p>First, I had the same impression you did, he may be telling the truth about his feelings but it is all about him. He doesn't know why he is there?? Well that alone says it is for sure not ok for him to come home... either no insight which is not going to get better or he is lying and that is just plain not ok. I think you response was beautiful. He is your son and a valuable and loved human being. But you are teaching him about boundaries and true love of a parent in the best possible way it seems to me...and of course who am I?? Just saying........</p><p></p><p>but his update, that is amazing. so the destroyed and lost kid is actually rocking a new job and has a girl friend so is not quite as stuck as he would seem to say. (he may feel that way, not going to argue that) And asking for your land etc.... yeah, that is really something else. Did you at least get a little internal chuckle out of that? You sound so strong (am sure that is not an easy thing to be with all of this) and I hope I can face things as gracefully as you are.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 509980, member: 12886"] HOLY HECK BATmom! First, I had the same impression you did, he may be telling the truth about his feelings but it is all about him. He doesn't know why he is there?? Well that alone says it is for sure not ok for him to come home... either no insight which is not going to get better or he is lying and that is just plain not ok. I think you response was beautiful. He is your son and a valuable and loved human being. But you are teaching him about boundaries and true love of a parent in the best possible way it seems to me...and of course who am I?? Just saying........ but his update, that is amazing. so the destroyed and lost kid is actually rocking a new job and has a girl friend so is not quite as stuck as he would seem to say. (he may feel that way, not going to argue that) And asking for your land etc.... yeah, that is really something else. Did you at least get a little internal chuckle out of that? You sound so strong (am sure that is not an easy thing to be with all of this) and I hope I can face things as gracefully as you are. [/QUOTE]
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