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Kanga changing RTCs - how to tell her
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 168239" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Okay - I like two advices so far - Christy and Lindas</p><p> </p><p>1.) Be honest - </p><p>2.) Get someone ELSE to be the honest person telling her</p><p> </p><p>Dude would have violent and explosive episodes if he was told too far in advance regarding leaving. He also would give staff the HARDEST time ever - he had NOTHING to loose and boy if he found out he was leaving you all could kiss his nose, and then some. </p><p> </p><p>So when moving - we would be there when he moved, the therapist was the one that told him - we offered support and told him we simply found a place better suited to what his needs were. We also said that if the place was better suited to him - it meant if he worked the program he could get better faster. And we all wanted that. Also I always checked the places out that he was going - except that 1 group home and had I toured it? He never would have gone. When I did go - it sure wasn't home but it wasn't what we found out it was later. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 168239, member: 4964"] Okay - I like two advices so far - Christy and Lindas 1.) Be honest - 2.) Get someone ELSE to be the honest person telling her Dude would have violent and explosive episodes if he was told too far in advance regarding leaving. He also would give staff the HARDEST time ever - he had NOTHING to loose and boy if he found out he was leaving you all could kiss his nose, and then some. So when moving - we would be there when he moved, the therapist was the one that told him - we offered support and told him we simply found a place better suited to what his needs were. We also said that if the place was better suited to him - it meant if he worked the program he could get better faster. And we all wanted that. Also I always checked the places out that he was going - except that 1 group home and had I toured it? He never would have gone. When I did go - it sure wasn't home but it wasn't what we found out it was later. Hugs - [/QUOTE]
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