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Kanga changing RTCs - how to tell her
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 168269" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I totally agree with having someone else ell kanga that she is moving. BUT be sure that the tdocs in a place that give a 13yo $110 a month will tell the RIGHT story.</p><p> </p><p>I would worry that they would tell kanga that you & husband were making her move because you wanted to make her miserable, hide the ways THEY knew YOU were abusing her, drag her away from her "friends", etc.....</p><p> </p><p>I would be very worried about this simply because this Residential Treatment Center (RTC) shows so little commone sense - the 1:1 outings with a child who is known for false allegations, the $$$, etc.....</p><p> </p><p>so, maybe have her old therapist tell her? Someone she may not have liked, but who YOU trusted not to lie and make her look bad. Heck, these new people may even tell her that you are making her move because they (the Residential Treatment Center (RTC)) were giving her the $$$ each month that should have been hers all along and that you OWE her from whenever she came to live iwth you. </p><p> </p><p>Maybe if you insist on being there when they tell her?? I am just not sure, though having someone else tell her sounds like a very wise idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 168269, member: 1233"] I totally agree with having someone else ell kanga that she is moving. BUT be sure that the tdocs in a place that give a 13yo $110 a month will tell the RIGHT story. I would worry that they would tell kanga that you & husband were making her move because you wanted to make her miserable, hide the ways THEY knew YOU were abusing her, drag her away from her "friends", etc..... I would be very worried about this simply because this Residential Treatment Center (RTC) shows so little commone sense - the 1:1 outings with a child who is known for false allegations, the $$$, etc..... so, maybe have her old therapist tell her? Someone she may not have liked, but who YOU trusted not to lie and make her look bad. Heck, these new people may even tell her that you are making her move because they (the Residential Treatment Center (RTC)) were giving her the $$$ each month that should have been hers all along and that you OWE her from whenever she came to live iwth you. Maybe if you insist on being there when they tell her?? I am just not sure, though having someone else tell her sounds like a very wise idea. [/QUOTE]
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