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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 425432" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>ski10 this is the time of year that my twins really want to find bio mom (Mother's Day). I've destroyed any & all evidence of there whereabouts & refuse to discuss this issue - period.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime, wm insists I owe him a bus ticket to bio mom's house & a dog to go with him. ( A bit of delusional thinking, huh?) The records are sealed per court order.</p><p></p><p>Bio mom wrote the most horrendous letter to kt & wm & put a copy of that letter in their life books. husband & I destroyed that letter before the tweedles were able to read. wm has never forgiven me & tells me he hates me for that. I hope it's a long & healthy hate.</p><p></p><p>That letter would have destroyed all the years of therapy, all the interventions & treatment that have gone on in the past 10 years. </p><p></p><p>I truly wish that adopted children knew deep down that they are remarkable young beings & are loved beyond reason by their adoptive parents. That this "fantasy" of life in the bio home would somehow have been better. For some reason the unknowns in the bio home aren't scary ~ not like the unknowns here in real life.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for sharing ski10 ~ I truly appreciate your take on this subject. It's not always a happy ending, is it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 425432, member: 393"] ski10 this is the time of year that my twins really want to find bio mom (Mother's Day). I've destroyed any & all evidence of there whereabouts & refuse to discuss this issue - period. In the meantime, wm insists I owe him a bus ticket to bio mom's house & a dog to go with him. ( A bit of delusional thinking, huh?) The records are sealed per court order. Bio mom wrote the most horrendous letter to kt & wm & put a copy of that letter in their life books. husband & I destroyed that letter before the tweedles were able to read. wm has never forgiven me & tells me he hates me for that. I hope it's a long & healthy hate. That letter would have destroyed all the years of therapy, all the interventions & treatment that have gone on in the past 10 years. I truly wish that adopted children knew deep down that they are remarkable young beings & are loved beyond reason by their adoptive parents. That this "fantasy" of life in the bio home would somehow have been better. For some reason the unknowns in the bio home aren't scary ~ not like the unknowns here in real life. Thank you for sharing ski10 ~ I truly appreciate your take on this subject. It's not always a happy ending, is it? [/QUOTE]
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