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L called last night... happy dance...
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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 99966" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>Witz~</p><p></p><p>Forgive me if I overstep my bounds. But, I really feel that you need to leave your daughter out of this. </p><p></p><p>Whatever your issues with your family - they are not her issues with her family. And although you are OK with not being a part of things - it doesn't sound like she is OK with not being a part of things. </p><p></p><p>I would imagine your daughter feels like she's in the middle of a tug of war. It's not a fun place to be.</p><p></p><p>In psychological terms we call this triangulation. It's not healthy. It's not productive.</p><p></p><p>She's 24. If she wants to be involved with her grandparents/aunts/cousins then she should be allowed to do so without the pressure of wanting to please you too.</p><p></p><p>If you're happy with your holiday plans - more power to ya!! But, let her be happy with holiday plans as well.</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 99966, member: 1545"] Witz~ Forgive me if I overstep my bounds. But, I really feel that you need to leave your daughter out of this. Whatever your issues with your family - they are not her issues with her family. And although you are OK with not being a part of things - it doesn't sound like she is OK with not being a part of things. I would imagine your daughter feels like she's in the middle of a tug of war. It's not a fun place to be. In psychological terms we call this triangulation. It's not healthy. It's not productive. She's 24. If she wants to be involved with her grandparents/aunts/cousins then she should be allowed to do so without the pressure of wanting to please you too. If you're happy with your holiday plans - more power to ya!! But, let her be happy with holiday plans as well. in my humble opinion. [/QUOTE]
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