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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 286187" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I did talk to her dad tonight, and got the scoop. Apparently it was more than a little kissing, and as I suspected, the honk of the horn wasn't a "warning to boyfriend" but a "costume malfunction". He sat with L and boyfriend for 3 hours yesterday, and said it was pretty intense. boyfriend told L that he loved her but not so much that he wants to marry or spend his life with her and he doesn't want to have kids. boyfriend also told L's dad that he had actually snuck up on them in the car, and that "when he saw what was going on he got really mad and he wanted to punch JR, but JR is his best friend so he couldn't, so he hit L instead." I guess <em>that</em> should tell L where his priorities lie. Her dad said boyfriend was sorry he'd done it, but not sorry he'd done it to her, if that makes sense.</p><p></p><p>Like I said, L told me that she would be staying with her dad until Wednesday when she and boyfriend will talk. Hopefully if she doesn't decide that she isn't going back with him, he will decide that he's not going to put himself in the position that he gets so mad at her that he wants to smack her again. ie: he breaks it off if she doesn't. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /> I told L's dad that L is presenting the living situation as she is living with her dad until Wednesday, and that he needs to look at it that way, too. I explained that I wasn't saying "throw her out on the street", but that they needed to acknowledge that for now it's a temporary thing, and if it is going to be anything more than that, he and his new wife need to sit down between now and Wednesday and set up the rules. Rent, cleanliness, food, who takes care of <em>her</em> dog. They need to put it out there now, because if they don't she will make up rules as she goes along and then have a hissy fit when they try to put a stop to it. She's already complaining that their toilet paper isn't soft enough, apparently. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite11" alt=":rolleyes:" title="Roll Eyes :rolleyes:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":rolleyes:" /> "And she eats everything". Wait until the new wife's autistic son starts finding her crusties all over the place. EWW!</p><p></p><p>He said it was good advice. I hope he will take it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 286187, member: 99"] I did talk to her dad tonight, and got the scoop. Apparently it was more than a little kissing, and as I suspected, the honk of the horn wasn't a "warning to boyfriend" but a "costume malfunction". He sat with L and boyfriend for 3 hours yesterday, and said it was pretty intense. boyfriend told L that he loved her but not so much that he wants to marry or spend his life with her and he doesn't want to have kids. boyfriend also told L's dad that he had actually snuck up on them in the car, and that "when he saw what was going on he got really mad and he wanted to punch JR, but JR is his best friend so he couldn't, so he hit L instead." I guess [I]that[/I] should tell L where his priorities lie. Her dad said boyfriend was sorry he'd done it, but not sorry he'd done it to her, if that makes sense. Like I said, L told me that she would be staying with her dad until Wednesday when she and boyfriend will talk. Hopefully if she doesn't decide that she isn't going back with him, he will decide that he's not going to put himself in the position that he gets so mad at her that he wants to smack her again. ie: he breaks it off if she doesn't. :mad: I told L's dad that L is presenting the living situation as she is living with her dad until Wednesday, and that he needs to look at it that way, too. I explained that I wasn't saying "throw her out on the street", but that they needed to acknowledge that for now it's a temporary thing, and if it is going to be anything more than that, he and his new wife need to sit down between now and Wednesday and set up the rules. Rent, cleanliness, food, who takes care of [I]her[/I] dog. They need to put it out there now, because if they don't she will make up rules as she goes along and then have a hissy fit when they try to put a stop to it. She's already complaining that their toilet paper isn't soft enough, apparently. :rolleyes: "And she eats everything". Wait until the new wife's autistic son starts finding her crusties all over the place. EWW! He said it was good advice. I hope he will take it. [/QUOTE]
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