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<blockquote data-quote="artana" data-source="post: 236698" data-attributes="member: 6186"><p>kjs,</p><p> </p><p> I am proud of you for going, and I think you need to find a new therapist. It sounds like he did not control the interaction, bring up different ways for you guys to communicate, or stop negative statements. He should have been guiding the entire encounter to try to get information without so much attacking.</p><p> </p><p> I think you are on the right track. You need to talk, you need to say exactly how you feel because you are a human being with feelings too. I think it is still a positive that your H showed up...even if it was aweful for you, any therapist you are with will slowly see what is becoming evident, that your H has a totally different version of reality.</p><p> </p><p> by the way: kjs, this is what happened to me exactly. Look up narcissism, the clinical diagnosis. It really sounds like your H has it, and that could explain why things went bad after difficult child was born, because you were suddenly devoting energy to someone other than him. That is classic narcissist.</p><p> </p><p>*hugs* You can always post and we will always listen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="artana, post: 236698, member: 6186"] kjs, I am proud of you for going, and I think you need to find a new therapist. It sounds like he did not control the interaction, bring up different ways for you guys to communicate, or stop negative statements. He should have been guiding the entire encounter to try to get information without so much attacking. I think you are on the right track. You need to talk, you need to say exactly how you feel because you are a human being with feelings too. I think it is still a positive that your H showed up...even if it was aweful for you, any therapist you are with will slowly see what is becoming evident, that your H has a totally different version of reality. by the way: kjs, this is what happened to me exactly. Look up narcissism, the clinical diagnosis. It really sounds like your H has it, and that could explain why things went bad after difficult child was born, because you were suddenly devoting energy to someone other than him. That is classic narcissist. *hugs* You can always post and we will always listen. [/QUOTE]
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