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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 236777" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">I agree with you Loth. When I asked my H to go to counseling the second time around, he had thoroughly convinced himself that I was the crazy one, I was over reacting and just trying to find things wrong with him. He also felt that once the therapist heard him out, he would be vindicated. Hahah, well, the joke was on him, because I even agreed to see a man that time and the Dr told H he would do himself a favor by getting into some type of program such as AA and that he while he never likes to blame one partner or the other, it was clear to him that H had some issues that needed to be addressed before we could move forward. Now, if I bring this up with H, he flatly denies the counselor ever said it, but the counselor did. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">I nagged my exh for 3.5 years to join me in counseling. Every week, I'd stop at the door and ask him if he wanted to join me and every week, he said no while staring straight at the tv as easy child played around on the floor. No amount of nagging would get them there. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">They have to want to go and *hopefully* it's for the right reasons....though I believe at first </span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">it's usually for their own reasons rather than yours.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 236777, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]I agree with you Loth. When I asked my H to go to counseling the second time around, he had thoroughly convinced himself that I was the crazy one, I was over reacting and just trying to find things wrong with him. He also felt that once the therapist heard him out, he would be vindicated. Hahah, well, the joke was on him, because I even agreed to see a man that time and the Dr told H he would do himself a favor by getting into some type of program such as AA and that he while he never likes to blame one partner or the other, it was clear to him that H had some issues that needed to be addressed before we could move forward. Now, if I bring this up with H, he flatly denies the counselor ever said it, but the counselor did. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]I nagged my exh for 3.5 years to join me in counseling. Every week, I'd stop at the door and ask him if he wanted to join me and every week, he said no while staring straight at the tv as easy child played around on the floor. No amount of nagging would get them there. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]They have to want to go and *hopefully* it's for the right reasons....though I believe at first [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]it's usually for their own reasons rather than yours.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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