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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 607175"><p>Id love for you to meet him as well! Yes, sounds the same so far as your son! Well, on his "good days or hours depending" He has a smile that melts even the older women and has gotten several compliments on how he's going to be a ladies man, they love being around him and he will answer them sometimes he a lil shy -others he just talks like me! A lot. He can be very helpful to the Teachers and family, neighbors.friends kids as well as when my daughter and I volunteer - he helps put up chairs, tables cages etc. He has gotten a little bossy/loud and said" I SAID I WILL/CAN DO IT DONT TOUCH" while putting the tables up. The kids at Minisports and McDonald, Peter Piper etx no problems reminders of leaving hard but he does. When in a good mood he loves to sit by us, hugs, jokes, helps us cook takes care of his pets/ours. At school he had a disagreement with two kids and only verbally argued back with one. He always says the kids blame him and go to him for everything but I asked the teachers and they say "no" they only go to him for group or when free time.My son is the one getting distracted looking around playing with pencils, markers ( colored his fingernails and cheeks while he was suppose to be doing work) Stand in front of the bathroom mirror for a long time just fidgets in his seat. Almost always wont take any blame for himself. Its always somebody elses fault even if he did, when I can prove without a doubt he still tries to say it wasnt him!</p><p></p><p>One on one attention with teacher with NO kids in the room he says he kinda gets it but still distracted. Speech he was distracted so they would stand many times, she brought a "reward" game for him to get through the sessions. Also he always does" lets make a deal" with the teachers/ and speech therapist. Hes done with speech this year tho. Prek/K he did ok, at school but issues at home still. Complementing work in K was sometimes an issue etc ( youd have to see my other posts infact you have replied to my old posts <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> So my daughter is quit/shy I don't know if social anxiety now I been questioning that. So anyways, my son is willing to talk to people and kids always but if the kids are over all the time like my neighbors daughter he has now gotten rough during play and has gotten mad at her once. He is bossy and almost always wants to be first player or first to eat etc. My friends kid he can be bossy and rough but she is too actually. My other friends 3 year old son hes fine with but has thrown tantrums not caring/ or understanding it was scaring him when the boy was younger. He has broken two windows, three doors, his sister stuff, his, peeled the wood of the door, broke two curtain rods, cut the curtains with scissors, bitten us, threatens us, broken dishes, kicks doors, holes in walls and writes on the walls etc. Cub scouts the one meeting so far he played just fine. But Im just scared when he gets mad he might blow up. </p><p></p><p>He can get angry at the slightest things, he can be like a light switch but harder to turn the tantrum off of course. He acts like this with family who lives here, doesnt live here, his dad that he rarely sees ( not too the extreme violence tho, just the deffience) at stores. Basically, once hes comfortable with the person, he shows more and more of himself around them. Surprising this year the first day of school he wasnt shy at all! He always wants to play with kids or us, does play on his own but rarely and ends up doing at least two things at once ( tv and toys or video game) or stops and does something else. Or hes doing something escp work and thats it, hes off to something else. Last night when he woke up, we studied for about 10-20 minutes ( didnt track time)with flashcards Im surprised he lasted that long to be honest! He was really trying cuz he had a test today. He really is smart or at least average when he can sit and do the work. Handwriting is extremely bad tho. His diffience is beyond the normal level. Oh he has been sniffing bowels saying everything is dirty or stained or smells funny for over a month- longer maybe. But when hes so busy he "forgets to ask or check" sometimes the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issie I think is him just trying to get to us because he does it more it seems. He does play in dirt and mud! So, ask me anything else <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Or ill write back if I think of it- my mind is just jumbled these days</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 607175"] Id love for you to meet him as well! Yes, sounds the same so far as your son! Well, on his "good days or hours depending" He has a smile that melts even the older women and has gotten several compliments on how he's going to be a ladies man, they love being around him and he will answer them sometimes he a lil shy -others he just talks like me! A lot. He can be very helpful to the Teachers and family, neighbors.friends kids as well as when my daughter and I volunteer - he helps put up chairs, tables cages etc. He has gotten a little bossy/loud and said" I SAID I WILL/CAN DO IT DONT TOUCH" while putting the tables up. The kids at Minisports and McDonald, Peter Piper etx no problems reminders of leaving hard but he does. When in a good mood he loves to sit by us, hugs, jokes, helps us cook takes care of his pets/ours. At school he had a disagreement with two kids and only verbally argued back with one. He always says the kids blame him and go to him for everything but I asked the teachers and they say "no" they only go to him for group or when free time.My son is the one getting distracted looking around playing with pencils, markers ( colored his fingernails and cheeks while he was suppose to be doing work) Stand in front of the bathroom mirror for a long time just fidgets in his seat. Almost always wont take any blame for himself. Its always somebody elses fault even if he did, when I can prove without a doubt he still tries to say it wasnt him! One on one attention with teacher with NO kids in the room he says he kinda gets it but still distracted. Speech he was distracted so they would stand many times, she brought a "reward" game for him to get through the sessions. Also he always does" lets make a deal" with the teachers/ and speech therapist. Hes done with speech this year tho. Prek/K he did ok, at school but issues at home still. Complementing work in K was sometimes an issue etc ( youd have to see my other posts infact you have replied to my old posts :) So my daughter is quit/shy I don't know if social anxiety now I been questioning that. So anyways, my son is willing to talk to people and kids always but if the kids are over all the time like my neighbors daughter he has now gotten rough during play and has gotten mad at her once. He is bossy and almost always wants to be first player or first to eat etc. My friends kid he can be bossy and rough but she is too actually. My other friends 3 year old son hes fine with but has thrown tantrums not caring/ or understanding it was scaring him when the boy was younger. He has broken two windows, three doors, his sister stuff, his, peeled the wood of the door, broke two curtain rods, cut the curtains with scissors, bitten us, threatens us, broken dishes, kicks doors, holes in walls and writes on the walls etc. Cub scouts the one meeting so far he played just fine. But Im just scared when he gets mad he might blow up. He can get angry at the slightest things, he can be like a light switch but harder to turn the tantrum off of course. He acts like this with family who lives here, doesnt live here, his dad that he rarely sees ( not too the extreme violence tho, just the deffience) at stores. Basically, once hes comfortable with the person, he shows more and more of himself around them. Surprising this year the first day of school he wasnt shy at all! He always wants to play with kids or us, does play on his own but rarely and ends up doing at least two things at once ( tv and toys or video game) or stops and does something else. Or hes doing something escp work and thats it, hes off to something else. Last night when he woke up, we studied for about 10-20 minutes ( didnt track time)with flashcards Im surprised he lasted that long to be honest! He was really trying cuz he had a test today. He really is smart or at least average when he can sit and do the work. Handwriting is extremely bad tho. His diffience is beyond the normal level. Oh he has been sniffing bowels saying everything is dirty or stained or smells funny for over a month- longer maybe. But when hes so busy he "forgets to ask or check" sometimes the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issie I think is him just trying to get to us because he does it more it seems. He does play in dirt and mud! So, ask me anything else :) Or ill write back if I think of it- my mind is just jumbled these days [/QUOTE]
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