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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 210182" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>I also agree with what the others have said. The feelings are normal, but you're going to need help getting past them and dealing with them so that you AND your memories will survive.</p><p> </p><p>Holding onto anger can be cruel to you and your loving son. Reliving what you think to be your loves final moments will torture you. After a while, unless your anger and grief are dealt with, it will swell and grow and permeate every part of your life. At that point, the gunman has not only stolen the life of your boyfriend, but has stolen yours and your sons. Please don't allow him this power over your being...if you're not careful, he will invade every part of your existance. Go to a grief group, call your local police dept. and ask them to help you find the local victims support group. Start advocating for change in your community/state. </p><p> </p><p>Take your anger and USE IT for something productive. If you let it consume you, it will do just that. You and your boy deserve better.</p><p> </p><p>I'll keep you in my prayers - as well as your little one!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 210182, member: 3814"] I also agree with what the others have said. The feelings are normal, but you're going to need help getting past them and dealing with them so that you AND your memories will survive. Holding onto anger can be cruel to you and your loving son. Reliving what you think to be your loves final moments will torture you. After a while, unless your anger and grief are dealt with, it will swell and grow and permeate every part of your life. At that point, the gunman has not only stolen the life of your boyfriend, but has stolen yours and your sons. Please don't allow him this power over your being...if you're not careful, he will invade every part of your existance. Go to a grief group, call your local police dept. and ask them to help you find the local victims support group. Start advocating for change in your community/state. Take your anger and USE IT for something productive. If you let it consume you, it will do just that. You and your boy deserve better. I'll keep you in my prayers - as well as your little one! Beth [/QUOTE]
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