I haven't had time to put down my thoughts especially since I am out of questions and have no idea what can be done for my son. We never see him! He sleeps in until he needs to leave for work about 10 am; works lunch and dinner in restaurant; often "hangouts" after work and gets home from midnight to 2 am. (See my prior post for more history on. Him)
On the rare occasion when paths cross he is angry/cranky. Last 10 minute conversation he claimed once again he has no time to get help. I think he is exhibiting early signs of mental illness with bi-polar or schizophrenia most likely. This is all complicated by drug use...marijuana, ecstasy, even caught him with Percocet (only once).
Is it drug problem or mental illness? I have no idea except he has made it 110% clear that he is not going to get professional help AND he doesn't want to listen to us. So now he will be given his independence when we force him to move out this summer.